Hey guys, I'll try to keep this as short as possible.

I managed to get a girl to come stay at my place and we kept kissing for hours. Before out first kiss, though, she asked me what I though about relationships because she said she had bad experiences and doesnt want one herself.

When we were talking at my place, she asked things like "how many children do you want in future"? and "you would make a good, funny dad" etc.

We were kissing passionately, so what is my next step in getting her to be in a relationship with me?

Thanks so much for your time guys!

this is funny. i was once seeing a girl who denied we were in a relationship.

i asked her what she would tell the police if they asked her what kind of relationship she had with me. she couldn't answer because she couldn't tell the police she didn't have a relationship with me.

i guess it depends on what kind of relationship you want. id just concentrate on having a good time with her and the rest will take care of itself, no? its all semantics at the end of the day.

If you want a relationship i'd go looking elsewhere, i dare say her attitude will change if she thinks she's gonna lose you.

I was in a similair situation this time last year, i just met another girl, the first girl suddenley changed her attitude once she realised i wasn't messing about anymore