So imagine looking at a girl. How the hell do you look? Are you supposed to glance at them? Are you supposed to smile?

Girls get scared of me somehow...

You make sure she doesnt see you checking her out. Do not smile because this is a signal to her and can make her feel threatened. Let your eyes scan the room and take her in in passing so that she doesnt seem singled out. Something happening in passing from one thing to another is less threatening than something specifically done to just her. Try to not send her any signals at all.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I like checking girls out, I like it when they know I'm checking them out. Just smile and say hi they they caught you. Better yet, she might start checking you out! You want her to know that you are interested, will you creep some girls out? Yea sure, but the kind of women that gets creeped out tend to be the ones not looking for a sexual partner. It is all about confidence, if you are checking a girl out and she catches you, then you look away, that is creepy. If you are checking a girl out and she catches you, and your eyes lock. Give a smile and introduce your self. As a matter of fact every time I say hi to a new women I scan her from head to toe as I am introducing my self, not in a creepy way, not in a sexual way, just in a nonchalant hey you are kinda cute way.