| dude, i was in the exact same situation, except you fucked it up even more by asking her that stupid shit. what were you thinking? you made her wonder why the hell she gave you her nr. in the first place! until you have comfort built, keep it simple and cocky/funny.
here's where we made a big mistake. if she gives IOI's, tells you she wants you to call and then flakes, you failed to build enough initial attraction. while you’re still thinking of her and looking at your phone, she’s probably already fucked ken, benny and is getting currently sarged by richard. read: she does not remember your sorry nice-guy ass anymore (btw, this is not meant to be personal. remember, i’m saying this to myself as well)!
if she's really hot, imagine how many men sarge her every day. why do you think mystery runs around like a fucking walking circus? why do you think "shock and awe" works? you gotta make sure you stand out. kino immediately, bombard her with routines, make her feel like you are already out on a date since the moment you meet her. neg her, push/pull, mixed signals. hit on her shamelessly, then tell her she's not your type, she's like your little buddy and remind you of your little sister. make her thoroughly, emotionally confused and thinking, "damn, i wanna meet this guy again. he's fucking crazy and such a blast! i never met anyone like him."
all this, "only text her once she texts you back, be brief, wait for a few days" shit, it's not PUA shit anymore, it's common knowledge! even girls are DHV, giving time constraints and all that shit. and guess, what? if it's common, you can't do that shit anymore! at this point, you have nothing to loose. she's not answering? go tylerdurden! AND FUCKING CALL HER, stop all this text bullshit.
tell her the weirdest thing happened, you just met her friend and she started hitting on you. tell her you saw a dorky video that make you crack up and that it totally reminded you of her. tell her you named your new pug after her because it makes these weird sounds. give her a personality test and tell her the result is personal so you want to give it to her when you hang out at starbucks. tell her that you gave her number to your balled and beer-bellied dad and you hope she doesn’t mind that he’s going to be calling her now. ask her if she believes in magic spells (just kidding).
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