Ok, so I was quite the virgin of a kid until I had my girlfriend. She was the first girl I made out with, first blow job, first lay and first everything. So I am still in love with her (as far as I know what love is) but she doesn't want to be with me and I want to try but I believe I pushed her too far away from me so I gotta back off for a bit. So how do I get over this or do I wait around for her because I still love her?

I got the right mind set to be a PUA because I got the natural confidence, I can open on any girl I see etc. I just feel "love" towards my ex and I don't want to mess up another chance with her.

Emotional Attachment. That's your problem. Try not to be needy, you can open her again and flirt a little bit. when she is comfortable, anchor (nlp thingy) the fun experiences you had in bed or when you were "together". Use and fire that anchor repeatedly when you talk about your past rel with her. Do it like this : (after comfort stage) "hey i just remembered the time we were TOGETHER (anchor) i mean, don't you feel that HA-PENIS in your chest WHENEVER YOU THINK OF ME, AND EVERYTHING FUN WE HAVE DONE(anchor) I know some part of you (pointing at her chest) still hides THAT EXCITEMENT AND HA-PENIS (anchor) but you are hiding it, probably even to yourself. IT'S OKAY." then proceed to your natural game, this will build sexual tension and some mind blowing RETURN of fun experience. hope this helps

Look man it took me 4 months to get over this girl (oneitis) i got told the best thing to do was to shag 10 more girls. I havent even shagged one but i rode the emotions like a rollacoaster. U can do either one of two things ride the emotinal rollacoaster or shag 10 girls and see how you feel after. At the end of the day my opinion is for you to get on with your life and be happy and stay positive. You will get more girls in your life than her. But always make sure you are the most important person in your life. And one day she might even come looking for you and you may be the one rejecting her!

What you need to do is take her out of focus and put yourself in the spot light. The feeling of oneitis, in my opinon, is because you have invested time with her and you are not receiving the return you expected or want on your investment. Instead of focusing on how you can get her back, focus on what you can do to build yourself up.

Take your negative feeling and redirect it to power a positive feeling. Occupy your time on creating a more attractive lifestyle for yourself - start going to the gym, pick up a hobby like playing guitar, make new friends, etc. Not only may this take her off of your mind for the time being, but you are improving your own wellness for you, building more confidence, and who knows... you may meet a new girl along the way.

If you are hell-bent on winning her back, try the above ideas for a while and don't contact her during your building. Return a new you and you never know what'll happen. But again, do it for yourself.

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