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PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 12:44 am 
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I love you're insights bro, and i agree with you.

Transcendental meditation, email me. I can hook you up with some pretty expensive audio for free :)

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He's right. This is not bullshit at all. It might not be masturbation per se, but pornography has a very damaging effect on the brain.

Hundreds of thousands of years ago, we didn't have the luxury of going through a porn window carousel on the computer, or watching 4 girls fist each other. We simply saw real life mates, got horny, and banged.

Evolution has not prepared us for such novelty as porn. Porn has a strange effect on d2 dopamine receptors in the brain, as it over fires it and burns it out. What ensues is a reliance on porn, and a general lack of motivation to socialize, and for that matter, talk to females.

People that have masturbated to porn for a long time have burnt out dopamine receptors and have become desensitized to real life interaction, even causing E.D. in many cases.

Now obviously, some people can watch porn all the time with no problem and masturbate constantly without losing any drive, but I can assure you that that is not many people. In fact, the advent of streaming high speed internet porn has been one of the worst things to happen to young men around the globe.
Think of the 14 year old that discovers porn for the first time in this fashion and makes a habit out of it. By the time he's 18 he will turn into a zombie.

I don't mean to hijack this post or go on a tangent, but there is some validity to all this. Maybe some guys have no problems, but I can assure you that limiting masturbation and for that matter, eliminating porn completely has helped many young men find their mojo. Here is a great website that explains this in detail.

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/

Oh, and by the way Eddiefews, what type of meditation do you practice? I've been seeking out a method of mediation that is really good for PUA. I want a way to really come down and get into a good "state".

I can definately relate to alot you have said, makes alot of sense. I'll check out the link


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here's a video that further supports what i've thought to be correct for a long time.


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=pl ... SF82AwSDiU[/youtube]


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i went to a pua seminar in london a few weeks ago and one of the speakers who was there made an important statement which has some bearing here.. its very simple STOP MASTURBATING!!! think about this you're kinda in the mood your testosterone is going so you have 2 options go out attempt to pick up approach loads of girls and possibly get laid with an actual girl, OR do you get some kleenex go on the internet or pop in a porno dvd and whack yourself senseless get 2 minutes gratification and then stay in and feel miserable that you arent getting any girls? its not easy but it is simple. if needs be if your in the mood for a quick lay look for the girls who look the type for a one night stand or the looking desperate girls (not ugly) and approach them hell if you get your one night stand theres your stress release... HERES THE SIMPLEST CHALLENGE EVER STOP MASTURBATING ENTIRELY THEN WHEN YOU HAVE THE URGE TO JACK OFF GO OUT TO A BAR AND APPROACH GIRLS.. IF YOU GET BLOWN OUT AND IT AINT GONNA HAPPEN WITH ANY GIRL GO HOME BUT AGAIN DONT MASTURBATE. AGAIN THE NEXT NIGHT YOU GET THE URGE GO OUT AND SO ON, YOU WATCH YOUR GAME IMPROVE

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I completely agree with Eddie. I was 20-21 horny as fuck. So you know what I did? Watched porn, constantly, I would go at it like crazy. So after further more research and really looking back I realized how much time I wasted.
I have now been clean for a month, Im happier, much more confident, and just happier to be out and about when porn just used to cloud my brain.
To others porn may not be viral to their health, but remember, no one is the same.
I strongly recommend even taking a week off, you will feel great!

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I stopped watching porn and masturbating when I heard that I affects your sex drive. Now week without porn and masturbating I'm feeling super horny (don't be scared :D ) and definetly more motivated to go out there and find myself a female.
If you haven't tried it, you should. It's the only way to know.

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I'm glad to see that awareness on the subject is spreading and reaching so many guys. I always encourage my friends to quit whacking out and get out there and meet real women. When you give masturbating up you interactions with women and yourself begin to improve dramatically.

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I first heard about this on the no fap june thread. It's tough, but I believe it's worth the sacrifice. I feel a slight change. NOthing huge but a slight change none the less. I really don't know if it's because of this or something going on in my life. Hell, for all i know it could be the placebo affect.


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I first heard about this on the no fap june thread. It's tough, but I believe it's worth the sacrifice. I feel a slight change. NOthing huge but a slight change none the less. I really don't know if it's because of this or something going on in my life. Hell, for all i know it could be the placebo affect.

hahah yea man :)

But if the placebo affect is causing soo many positive changes in you're life then i think its worth it anyway

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I have this strat however. When I KNOW I’m getting laid ... I masturbate earlier that day... I last twice as long that way and with a condom I can go for over an hour ez....

Its 100% true i have more game when i hold off masturbation but i have better SEX if iv masturbated already that earlier that day... what to do what to do....

Your body motivates your mind to be better, have more energy, try harder etc when you haven’t ejaculated in a while. However if its TOO long then you'll start giving off a desperation vibe and try TOO hard. You have to find a balance. Like 1 or 2 times a week if no sex.


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I have this strat however. When I KNOW I’m getting laid ... I masturbate earlier that day... I last twice as long that way and with a condom I can go for over an hour ez....

Its 100% true i have more game when i hold off masturbation but i have better SEX if iv masturbated already that earlier that day... what to do what to do....

Your body motivates your mind to be better, have more energy, try harder etc when you haven’t ejaculated in a while. However if its TOO long then you'll start giving off a desperation vibe and try TOO hard. You have to find a balance. Like 1 or 2 times a week if no sex.

There are others ways to last twice as long ;)

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