So i've never really had a problem with getting a girl's number. In fact I can feel completely confident in myself to walk up to a random girl i don't know, start a conversation and walk away with a number.
My problem starts after i get the number and i start texting her. I always seem to fuck up cause the conversation always seems to die quick. Either i get bored with her or she doesnt reply. I don't get it. My friend seems to be a texting genius and can game any girl he wants once he gets the number and they always get hooked.
I cant seem to figure out if its what im saying or if i say too much but its been pissing me off for a while.

Hey

two things, first:
It may be a problem with comfort before getting the number. It is really easy getting a number but a completly different thing keeping contact. I would do some nlp just before doing to number. just ask her about a place she feels really comfterble. Ask her to describe it with all her 5 senses. Then get yourself into that place. She will automatickly feel more comfterble with you and then respond better to txt's.

another tip:
check out this link with good text openers:
1-vt21175.html?start=0

hope it helps

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alright ill try that. thanks for the help!
The openers are hella corny but i guess that stuff works haha

a non-NLP suggestion:

come up with a reason to text her, BEFORE you get her number.

for example, if you already have a connection... say, you both like sports. say you'll text her when there's a good game on. BOOM, something to talk about, and she has no problem giving her number out, FOR A REASON.

otherwise use the texts to arrange something in the moment. even if she can't go, make it sound awesome. like "LASER TAG. 4PM. [ADDRESS]" even if she's busy, she'll laugh and wish she could come. then you can reschedule.

so what im trying to say is, don't let text replace your game. i've walked away from parties with numbers plenty of times, but if i didn't play the game right beforehand (get some attraction or comfort going) then they were complete duds. it's easy to think that once you've got the number, you're straight; but while sometimes you'll hear the opposite, girls will give their number to pretty much any non-creepy guy. it's what you do with it that'll differentiate you.

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