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Addict, I disagree but I understand there is no perfect way...I most of the time have them thinking about and initiating the sex. I always assume that they want to have sex with me, and I act accordingly! Not to imply that I have sex 100% of the time with every girl I meet, just my point of thought each time I enter a womans world is that she wants to have sex.
Peace...
I don't understand how you do not see that women are in fact in absolute control sexually, every man wants to have sex with women. For the most part, women decide who gets to have sex with them. Most men that approach women approach them out of sexual interest. The sex/porn industry is a billion dollar industry, it is a majority of men paying for this industry, strip joints, etc etc.
Sex is everywhere, and the power lays within the woman's discretion. Sure men can have the power, but it is usually obtained after the fact. In general, women are in control of sex.
I am not sure what you are disagreeing upon. I too assume that woman want sex with me and I work on creating the sexual tension and appeal but that doesn't mean I don't accept that they are for the most part in control of dishing it out.
A beautiful woman can walk into a cafe, and every man in there will want to have sex with her. Not true of the beautiful man that walks into the cafe. See the difference?. Even if woman want to have sex with that man, they are still generally in control if the man is attracted to them enough sexually.
This is how the world works (western society) and how it always has, minus the cave man days and a few male dominant religious countries.
Seduction can become the great equalizer, but in it's essence it really is just convincing the woman to give up that initial control. Ideally the men can take control after sex. or in specific cases, but in general, the woman have the control.