I'd say for the most part it has interfered with my own personal success. I used to try and convince myself otherwise, but looking back now. If I had invested that much time and effort into my personal career I may already be a millionaire.

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The only thing I have been able to remain loyal to is "seduction" herself, she is my soul mate, she is my queen.

All in all, I have still managed to maintain a successful life, I am happy, have a solid career, have lots of friends, and a great out look in life. So with all that being said, I do not regret my course in life. I accept it with open arms.

40/year?

Preach it SA911.

That's not hard and completely manageable.

You know 40 women a year is really not that many, once you become efficient with women an seduction it becomes second nature....but it adds up quickly. I often asked myself the questions you are asking. I'd say for the most part it has interfered with my own personal success. I used to try and convince myself otherwise, but looking back now. If I had invested that much time and effort into my personal career I may already be a millionaire. The irony of it all is that a lot of men become success driven just to get women. ( this is what i'd often say to myself when I started doubting my course)

Coming to this forum and helping others has helped me put my years of womanizing into perspective. If I can turn all of my past efforts into some sort of success within this market, then it will not feel like time wasted. In the few months I have been here, I have realized that I can use my many years of experience as a tool to help others. I have been successfully coaching a number of students and am presently developing a web site, to help even more people.

My lifestyle and past careers have had a lot to do with me achieving such a high number, I was a club promoter in my 20's then became a night club owner in my early 30's. But above all of that, I have always been in love with seduction and the art of pick up. I am consumed by it, even to this day.

Most people will go on vacation to get away from their present lifestyle, I enjoy vacations to have fun and seduce exotic women. I guess it all boils down to your personal desires. There has been many times in my life where I have asked myself, was it all worth it. I still have no definitive answer.

Do I have regrets, of course I do, I have no family life, no children, have not found an ultimate connection with my soul mate. It's been almost impossible for me to maintain a monogamous relationship. ( I would lose sexual desire quickly)

The only thing I have been able to remain loyal to is "seduction" herself, she is my soul mate, she is my queen.

All in all, I have still managed to maintain a successful life, I am happy, have a solid career, have lots of friends, and a great out look in life. So with all that being said, I do not regret my course in life. I accept it with open arms.

Well so it looks like it HAS interfered, however, it's what does it for you personally, so man, although it's caused you some pain, it looks like ultimately you're turning into something you love. Good for you dude.
It would be for me. I'm completely comfortable with women and good at getting what I want, but I own an increasingly successful software company and I probably work a minimum of 60 hours a week, with some going onto 80+. If I had a 9-5er and nothing else to do it would probably be manageable, but not my schedule.

Going out and getting a new woman weekly would stretch my mental bandwith beyond its limits.

Every dude has his own way of doing things and mine is keeping more like longer term lovers that do it for me. And sometimes forgoing the company of a fuck-friend altogether when I don't wanna deal with it. I don't want to fuck 5 women in a week.

I don't want relationships, I want the quick FWB situation. I make it clear that We'll hang out and fuck, until we get bored or strings attach then we move on. That's my game. I cannot stand anyone remotely starting to get their claws around me... Hell, I bolt when a chick complains I don't text/talk to her enough. But - I don't lie to them either. I tell them up front I'm prone to run, I'm commitment-phobic and I don't want to define what ever it is the two of us do...

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Fair enough, I think you guys like living PUA as a lifestyle. And that's cool, I think we all use it quite differently and it's interesting to hear how other dudes use it. I think you guys should absolutely monetize your love of the game.

Personally, I just get annoyed with too many different women. I've done the many women in a short time period thing several times and I just get annoyed with all the overhead involved. I actually prefer having longer-term flings, especially if she's a certain type of girl (punk/goth/rock chick, a developer like me, a swinger, or just a chick that does it for you) because it's more engaging to me than the week or two long flings.

In general I use PUA to enhance my fun, but I don't really treat it as a lifestyle. My life is mostly focused around achieving some very lofty entrepreneurial goals I've set out to get, and so far so good.

Prostitutes don't count

Plus i hate condoms..

Fair enough, I think you guys like living PUA as a lifestyle. And that's cool, I think we all use it quite differently and it's interesting to hear how other dudes use it. I think you guys should absolutely monetize your love of the game.

Personally, I just get annoyed with too many different women. I've done the many women in a short time period thing several times and I just get annoyed with all the overhead involved. I actually prefer having longer-term flings, especially if she's a certain type of girl (punk/goth/rock chick, a developer like me, a swinger, or just a chick that does it for you) because it's more engaging to me than the week or two long flings.

In general I use PUA to enhance my fun, but I don't really treat it as a lifestyle. My life is mostly focused around achieving some very lofty entrepreneurial goals I've set out to get, and so far so good.

Hello mate, Thanks for all the help that you offer.

My question today is :

There is this cute japanese colleague," in just a part time job nothing to worry about", who is very into me, I can notice by her body language, the way she qualifies herself, her investment is very obvious, so I thought it's time to ask her out as she told me she would be free on that particular day, I asked her out to join me on my normal day off making it sound not as a big deal but just hanging out together. I did it through facebook as I don't have her number, she replied 2 days later saying that she didnt check her emails in the last 2 days and said Thank you for asking me but didnt propose any other time in the future.
I noticed she is hanging out with one of our colleagues, but as I said her attraction to me is pretty radiant.

how should I reply to that email of her ? how should I aske her again out ?

Thanks for your help again.

Hello mate, Thanks for all the help that you offer.

My question today is :

There is this cute japanese colleague," in just a part time job nothing to worry about", who is very into me, I can notice by her body language, the way she qualifies herself, her investment is very obvious, so I thought it's time to ask her out as she told me she would be free on that particular day, I asked her out to join me on my normal day off making it sound not as a big deal but just hanging out together. I did it through facebook as I don't have her number, she replied 2 days later saying that she didnt check her emails in the last 2 days and said Thank you for asking me but didnt propose any other time in the future.
I noticed she is hanging out with one of our colleagues, but as I said her attraction to me is pretty radiant.

how should I reply to that email of her ? how should I aske her again out ?

Thanks for your help again.