Just got back from st-hilaire, I dont follow that pickup, did you guys pickup protesters??[/quote]

I try to avoid them because I hate the hippy/punk types. The girls we were hitting on that night were mostly red squares, but not protesters in the protest (who are all dirty hippies). They were pretty cool to their credit.

Frat Party with HeartNet

So I helped organize this party for a frat brother who was going away for the summer. Invited a bunch of people, HeartNet came. Feels pretty good to be part of the party, you have no AA as I would just walk around and ask people if they are enjoying themselves like I was a club owner or something.

I obviously hit on a bunch of girls, with varying success. I have no AA once I'm warmed up (still need to work on having none when I'm "cold", but whatever).

However, I seem to have "closing anxiety" pretty often. I'll be talking to a girl and it's going great then I start to get the heebie-jibbies about how to ask for the phone number. This relates a lot with the sticking points I had about not getting phone numbers enough from good sets.

Anyway at one point I decided I'll be damned if I don't take action to get past my hangups, so I just took a phone number off a girl I was talking to under any pretense and kept the interaction going.

I kept on going with the same girl (around a 7 maybe?), had really good kino going; play fighting, touching for no reason. At one point I would play fight her and I took both her hands with one of mine and "handcuffed" her that way for a while, like big brothers do to little brothers at 5 years old. She seemed to loved that, really taps into the domination girls like.

Ended up with insanely heavy kino with her, while waiting for HeartNet to sort out if he can get a girl he was gaming back at his place.

I kissed her on the cheek in a way that could've initiated a makeout, she instantly comes back for a kiss, kiss for like 2 seconds and I pull off. She's like "you have a girlfriend don't you?". Haha, no. Keep on messing around, I never really makeout with her, though at that point the tension was so high I'm pretty sure I could have taken her back to my car to fuck.

So keeping the number and using it now is a huge step back, but whatever in the worst case it's good practice

So I'm on a total roll of fucking up good potential with awful phone game.

MakeOutGirl from friday I texted on sunday (instead of the next day, like I should have) and with a random text. I gave off a weak frame when she kind of questioned why I was texting her and she stopped responding after a couple of replies. Oh well.

I got another decent number from a really hot greek girl sunday too when out with Heartnet off the street at 2am coming out of a club. Felt like daygame, definitely had good attraction.

Texted her the next day with a joke about pokemon (we were joking about that during the interaction), she responded well, but I kept on with the childishness until she asked me what age I was. Not game over, but a pretty big hit.

Feels like I'm walking a tightrope in text game right after the initial approach.

So what did we learn, kids?

- Text back fast after getting the number, no more than 20ish hours after
- Callback humour is fine, but don't linger on it
- Don't fuck it up!

Pokemon never get old LOL!!!

I went out a lot this weekend, all with afc friends. I still open, I tend to get bored when all my friends who never get laid do obviously workaround stuff to try to get laid without actually trying. Also they give me a bit of shit initially for opening people, as that was not the usual dynamic I have with those guys, but fuck it; they'll have to deal with that.

I've been forcing reactions out of people as much as I can nowadays. As soon as I get eye contact, I make a facial or hand gesture (smile, wave, high five, whatever) to get a feel out of the person. I used to always keep eye contact until the other person broke it, but that has several flaws as it keeps you in the wordless "cold" AA mode. The trick is to do it as soon as you get the eye contact, no hesitation.

This also works as a nonverbal opener; friday the club was too loud to talk in (and even if it wasn't I was too drunk to be intelligible), so I just forced reactions out of people to open on the dancefloor. Got a decent one-minute makeout with a hottie out of that, which turned into a fairly extended dryhump "dance". Most of it I remember was out of being "clutch", just plowing trough all the greenlights to get to sexual dancing as fast as possible.

I still don't know how to fuck those 1 minute makeout sets, but they definitely are fun. I'm pretty sure it's the same kind of girls that are in for ONS if you have the right logistics (I'm a total ONS newb).

Has it really been a more than a month since I last posted here? Damn, I have been lazy with this.

Either way, I have been working on getting making my lifestyle as awesome as possible, that's the point IMO; getting laid is an aspect of it, not the center. I'm starting a Vlog for the poker site I coach for, I'll definitely end up posting the videos in here since they should relate to a bunch of lifestyle topics and self improvement stuff (around my ramblings, obviously).

Here's a good one, though, and it probably happened to all of you more experienced players. I'd appreciate advice on it:

I am jamming at a friends apartment and his roommate invites a bunch of people over. We stumbled into a cool chord progression and were trying to make a song out of it, but with an audience there it's hard to be creative. We made a little show, played a song and packed our gear up to start partying in the apartment with everyone else.

In the whole party, there were 5 chicks, two of whom fuck-able, one without an obvious boyfriend in the room (let's call her FrenchGirl). Either way, I park myself in the kitchen and start vibeing with everyone. It's been a while I just kino everyone, guy or girl. It puts myself in state and makes it much smoother when I start getting closer to girls. I just have as much fun as possible, I say outrageous shit to entertain myself and make fun of frenchgirl and her UG friend for being from France.

I end up alone with frenchgirl in the kitchen, I think she talks about doing Krav Maga or something along those lines, I tell her she couldn't kick my ass if she tried with all her fancy-pants tactics. Cue to me physically overpowering her (I'm like a foot taller than her), from the little experience I have this always creates massive attraction. I show her a proper MMA choke (the only one I know really) and other excuses to kino everywhere.

I'll skip parts to where we went to a bar as a social circle on crescent, frenchgirl always ended up back around me even when other guys tried to hit on her. Either way, we're outside at mad hatter's on the back terrasse arms around each other, really heavy kino, I finally go for the kiss (which I could've done in the apartment, but whatever), turns into a mini makeout. When we finally go back to the table (she's been saying she's tired and hinting at going home), I get myself a glass of water at the bar and her friend (roommate?) comes up to me and says I should come to the "after hours" because her friend will like it.

Thanks for the green light honey, I'm already on my way to cross that intersection.

But seriously, that comes as a point to be cool with everyone, hot or not, as she seemed genuinely happy I'd lay her friend the same night I met her. Now I'm pretty drunk and trying find a way to make it socially acceptable to just leave the bar with my chick. Everyone is pretty aware of what's up but it's the old thing where you can't say it out loud.

So we end up going outside as a group, everyone goes to an after hours club, frenchgirl says she's tired and I legitimately fucking hate after hours clubs, on top of being drunk and tired at 3am. I tell my girl I'm not driving so we might as well walk to her place, I live in the west island so I'll find a place to crash since I know a bunch of people in the area.

The walk is a good 10 minutes and I can see she's losing state, she asks at least twice if I plan on staying at her place, I just remain vague and talk about other stuff. We get to her place, university dorm, I tell her I have to use the bathroom. Cool, bathroom is outside her room, I come back out, insta makeout with her for s little bit. It gets hotter, she tells me I can't go into her room. I break off the makeout since I can't find any legitimate excuse to get myself in her room.

There goes that, she didn't answer the text I sent her the next morning so it probably got awkward in her mind.



Either way, I need advice on framing how you leave the bar to go back home together. I could probably frame it direct ("let's go back to be more private"), but from what I understand going home seems to be a particularly bullshit-heavy phase of seduction. Obviously it's probably much harder to invite yourself back to a girl's place than invite her back to your own, but that's something I'll have to deal with until I move out on my own downtown.