I rarely talk with my friends about strategies for girls, but last night one of them happened to be trying to help me on this topic... Basically showing the girl you have other things to do, high value, she's the one chasing you. My friend has a number of girls he can hook up with and it seems so easy for him to do this.. When you have many options you don't need to focus or care about one specific one. Things just seem to happen. But I think me and many others have the same question: what if you're just starting out, just have one number? I'm finding it very hard to play it off like I'm the important one when I don't have many options.

What do you think about this? Do you have any additional tips or strategies to really get the girl chasing you; the mindset that you need for this?

lol .. How about you try and get more numbers and girls? How about changing your life style and make yourself busy? Join a gym, join some sort of clubs or groups.. Don't just sit her and post stuff all day hoping this one girl will get attracted to you out of the blue.

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Besides, even if you fake it that you have a big social circle and that you are the shit, it won't come out natural and sooner or later she will know that you are not that much of a prize

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I wrote an article on this exact same subject. If you click the link in my signature you can check it out. It's called " Disrupt Her Reality"

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Thanks a lot, I'll check it out now.

As for the poster above.. you're way off base. I'm actually a really busy guy, don't have much free time. But I've always got my phone on me which means I can always text or think about texting someone. Basically my confusion lies in the line between appearing busy and appearing disinterested. How do you distinguish the two? Another of my problems i guess in this area is that im incredibly picky when it comes to girls. if they're not gorgeous or they don't completely win me over then i don't bother. so this kind of leads to me not usually having many numbers at my disposal. i'm about to move back home to a new area though after college.. start going to some clubs. so maybe that will change.

i'll post back after reading that article