I think a month ago I went with this girl, we were all over each other. It ended because she works, has a kid, and goes to school and basically said she her life was too crazy for a relationship.

Well, I said "Ok", and gave no hard feelings about it. If it wasn't for reading about The Game I would have texted her million times. But I didnt. I fought the urge, I even ran into her at work and kept my cool (was polite, said hello, made no big issue about anything).

AAAnnnnnnnd it happens. She texts me out of the blue saying she can't stop thinking about me.

Well since I'm new to this kind of thing, is NOW a good time to be cocky about it? Or just be genuine and tell her that I've been thinking about her too? What do you guys think.

It's true... acting like you don't want it works... imagine that?

It's always time to be cocky!

I would reply maybe; "I thought about you just this morning! While I was in the SHOWER!

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ROFL i love that
My gut is saying "just be cool". I'm going to tell I've thought (past tense), about her too.

I would not use that shower comment bro.. Just be cool and casual, does her thinking about you make up for her just cutting things off in the past? Is that all she had to do? Think about you one time and tell you about it and she's in the clear? Come on dude, your better than that

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I'll keep that in mind. I replied saying that I thought her about too, we'll see what she has to say next, if she doesn't respond then that's all I have to say. I'm not going to chase her. Ball is in her court.

I really did enjoy being with her.

Did you really think of her? You said it was out of no where, like it was the last thing on your mind.

Be open and honest always.

Now had you replied with "Nice " and thats it, she would still be trying to prove herself to you by opening up more. All you did was give in to her frame, placing her in the leading position that she didn't think she was in. The conversation will go dead unless you take a more authoritative stance. Its not her, its YOU remember that.

Girls actually do wanna work for you, believe it or not.

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Yea, I did. We had a really nice date
When I kissed her.. she tasted good. I don't know how else to say that. Thing is she's flaky because the job, the school, and the kid. So if anything is going to happen, like I said, the ball is in her court.

Good Job Bro!

FYI, I have used the "shower" line myself....with great results

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