my girlfriend and I have been dating fOr a week and a bit, we're very sexual. First time I kissed her and rubbed her. Second time I kiss her and hold back, she pulls my hand and Puts it between her legs. This was after a week of dating, I got inside her panties but that's it.

She's a Christian and goes to church every Sunday, a few days ago I got her in bed and I held her hand while she slept, i tried to hold back as much as possible and just show her that I'm in no rush. Then we started and I tried to rub her, she didn't let me because she had her periods. Woops. Then she whispered she believes in no sex before marriage, I really like her so I tell her that's fine for now. Then she gave me oral, her first time. She said tell me what to do. My birthday is coming up and she says she'll blow me for as long as I like. I was quite surprised. So then I took some advice from this forum and spoke to her about it and she replies to me like this: what do you guys think?


"hey what i wanted to say (which i couldn't cause she was hanging around lol!) was thank-you so much for being so understanding. You dont have to be nervous around me ever, i know you would never want to upset me. And i know the sex thing sucks, but its only because of what i value, i can do it if i want and still be Christian. Im in a relationship with God and he loves me despite what i do. But its just me following what i believe. Not because of you, youre a keeper
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I think she is not a virgin...

Oh Yerh she is a virgin,my finger has been inside her, I know what a virgin feels like I've taken one girls virginity before.

Some girls are tighter than others....