(I want to mention that my little exposition below does end with an important question)

The Everest I'm referring to is Laura, the girl from the post, "A baffling problem". (I can't link it, so just type Laura in the search bar and scroll down till you find it). I took the advice from this forum and stayed away from her while approaching heaps of other women. Unfortunately, my feelings for her haven't died.

A few weeks after that post, we had a fight. It started when I mentioned we were overdue to catch up, and she declined because she thought I'd hit on her. I made her feel stupid by denying it and telling her to get over herself. I think she saw straight through my attempts though; She's a very intelligent girl. We haven't spoken since.

Anyway, my plan has been to stay out her life for a pro-longed period of time while continuing the journey toward mPUAdom. Is that a word? It is now . Down the track, I plan to go back to Laura as a new man. I'll be an mPUA with an extensive skill set and high value. This large break will not only give me time to grow, but it will hopefully allow her to believe that I'm no longer interested in her. Because come on, If I was interested in her, would I really part with her for so long while getting with other girls? . After our huge break, how ever long it must be, I plan to begin my courtship again. And this time, I'll do it right.

I bring all this up because my friend's birthday party is this Saturday, and Laura's going to be there. My idea was to neglect her the whole night while gaming the whole crowd. I should be able to flick the pre-selection switch and the leader of men switch as she witnesses my interactions. My justification for neglecting her during this event is that it will further convince her that I'm not into her. Imagine that there is a disinterest bar, and every time I neglect her at a public gathering, the disinterest bar grows. When it's full, I can then re-start my courtship with a clean slate, as a new man. If someone has feedback on this tactic, please let me know.

Anyway, during this party I also wanted to throw DHV's in all directions. I'm not talking about simple DHV story telling, but physical, tangible DHV's, such as magic tricks or performing a song. Something that people can notice from a distance. My question is- what are some good physical/tangible DHV's or gimmicks to increase my overall social proof? Anything can come in handy.

Thanks guys.

P.S- Please don't convince me to give up on her. Just give some advice on how I can snag her in the future or give some advice to me and the other readers on DHV's that can grab the attention of adjacent sets. Cheers.

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Um ok.

Aren't you an insightful, helpful member of the community. Thanks for a brilliant response. I'll be sure to give you some equally good advice next time you make a post .

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hey,
unfortuneatley you are stuck in a paradox, you have invested alot into this Laura girl, and moving on and talking to other girls is supposed to help you detach and deal with your neediness, the paradox comes into play with the whole idea that if it was even possible for you to get Laura, you would have to completely not care if you got her or not, and if that was the case, you probably wouldn't try at all to get her due to the behavior she has shown you, there is nothing special about this Laura girl besides the amount of investment you have put into her, if you can't move on from her, then you are not ready

being needy is your problem, not time, not the wrong strategy, you are plain and simple needy, the advice you want does not exist, Laura doesn't want to sleep with you, it won't happen, you have to move on, that is what you don't want to hear, but it is the truth

swaying back and fourth between being butthurt and seeking reactions, or being nice and seeking her approval won't work, everything you attempt will come through a needy frame, and you can bet she can see right through it, and the more you try, the more it turns her off

there are not tactics or secret magic pill words to get a girl, you just have to be non-needy, confident, and get on well with the person, that is about it, you are dealing with people, sometimes you are not a fit for the person and have to just accept that and be able to move on without investing yourself into a bad deal so to speak, that is part of what makes a man attractive, his ability to stay motivated and chase his ambitions, there is nothing to gain over this rainbow and any tactics you emplore will almost certainly come off as incongruent

What you think doesn't matter.

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Seconded. Intelligence my ass.