If you know all this stuff why can't you put it into practice?

OMG CASANOVA you are so right. I am gonna practice it everyday now. You are awesome !

TERENCE,SLICK,VOLCANO

It's been around 4 week since i went out with crew to do some approaches or even alone. In the first two hours of sarging in town i tried to do some direct approaches but kept having AA. However shortley after that me and VOLCANO incentivised each other by playing this game whereby when a attractive girl walked past us we would race and whoever was the nearest would approach the girl. This may have looked weird on the outside but it very affective in that it got me motivated.

For example this cute twenty-something year old walked past and i instinctively approach because knew VOLCANO and TERENCE would gon after her. While talking to girl i try to remember the stuff JACKAL taught me such as eye contact, kino etc but at the same time be in moment and enjoy myself. After having a nice conversation with the girl i left with her number.

My second number close of the day was outside paradise forum when this brunet walked past us . I pointed to VOLCANO to approach he told fucking do my self. He was right. So picked up my testicals and approached. Talking this girl i found out she was three years 3 years younger than me but looking at her you wouldn't have thought that . Anyways it was cool interaction. For my last few approaches i team up with SLICK . He was like an approaching machine that day which pushed me to more approaches.

Day 30: I went to the city centre solo. After getting some groceries, I texted Jackal and said ‘wtf, why can’t I do this?’ I was very hesitant to approach. I knew Jackal was going to make me do it anyway, so I decided to approach a seated 2 set without waiting for Jackal to reply. I said ‘hey guys, how’s it going?’ (they were really attractive) They said they were good, but they were not giving me a good reaction in terms of body language. I attempted to plow, but it was so hard because the situation was so awkward. I commented on how there are a lot of people outside today because of the weather. 20 seconds in, I said ‘i don’t even know why im here, this is so awkward’ and they laughed. I said a couple more things and then said ‘i cant think of anything else to say’ and they laughed again. I said ‘im gonna pretend like you walked away from me and walk away now’ and I ejected. Then, I went back home.

I do not regret doing the set. At the end of the day, nothing bad actually happened. I didn’t die. I JUST WENT OUT 30 DAYS IN A ROW. I am proud of myself.

DRAGON and SLICK. What is the point of writing field reports if you are not measuring your progress? You have to set a goal. The goal has to be measureable and precise. For example if you are doing the mystery or RSD methods,

Month 1 : I will open a set

Month 2 : I will open a set and go into Attraction

Month 3 : I will open a set and go into Attraction and Comfort

Month 4 : I will open a set and go into Attraction, Comfort, Seduction

So set your goals according to your own confidence levels such that it does not make you stressed out and you will progress for sure.

ALPHA MALE
Inner-characteristics

1.Leader of men
2.Decisive, assertive, but notcontrolling
3.Firm in his values and identity: self-assured as to who he really is
4.Confident
5.Does not take anything personally
6.Lack of outcome dependence: justenjoys the process
7.Fully engaged in the present moment
8.Unstressed and carefree: walksthrough the world with ease
9.Non-judgmental
10.Interesting
11.Risk-taker
12.Ambitious
13.Non-reactive and non-reactionseeking
14.Has mindset that he is the catch/prize.
15.Doesn’t give a fuck about seekingothers’ approval
16.Protective of close friends/family
17.Great story-teller
18.Never gives excuses
19.Acts like a man who is busy and hasthings going on in his life
20.Not afraid to state true opinion onsomething
21.Not a people pleaser: calls people outif they deserve it
22.Brings their state from within, notdependent on the environment
23.Has an abundance mindset
24.Tells, doesn’t ask (e.g. take my hand,follow me, wait for me)
25.Makes people feel comfortable in his presence
26.Expresses polite & calm authority,without aggressiveness.
27.Calm under pressure
28.Projects happiness and contributes to making the SPAM more fuN

ALPHA MALE

Outer-characteristics & body language

1.Animated face
2.Expressive with your hand gestureswithout overdoing it
3.Keeps chin up during interaction
4.Smiles when it is appropriate butdoesn’t over do it
5.Has tonality to his voice, avoidsmonotone sound
6.Talks slowly, rhythmically, and with pauses and emphasis
7.Never puts hands in pockets or infront of face
8.Holds drink by side, not by chest
9.Looks relaxed and easy-going
10.Looks unique in his style andappearance: stands out
11.Well-dressed and well-groomed
12.Looks unaffected by shit tests andrude remarks
13.Takes up space with his body: leans back and has a significant physical presence
14.Doesn’t walk, but struts. Takes histime without rushing to get anywhere
15.Doesn’t fidget
16.Not afraid to touch a girl duringconversation
17.Maintains eye contact, never looks below her mouth

@ Don Juan

Mate, that's really cool info, will deffo look into it.

FR for about two weeks ago when I was out with the guys.

Was farming numbers around Newstreet, remember got two numbers, didn't follow up with a day two though.
One of the girls was really turned on by me approaching her. She gave me an IOI and I instantly went there and talked to her. Problem is I should have taken that to an instant date but just later realised it. (One of them moments that could have been very cool but if ignored isn't going to get you there - she probably rationalised that it was awkward and so I didn't get any love).

Later we hit some pubs... a bit awkward and all cause I was rusty. Basically chatted up everybody in the pub and yet it took some balls to do it. Cheers JACKAL, JIMBEAM and SLICK for following through - they approached and stayed in set faaaaar better than I did.

Again, a cheeky bitch that I could tell wanted me to f*ck her. It would have been very complicated to extract her and all and a bit out of my league for now (happened before in the past - she left her friends for me... so so nice )

Lessons learned:

- Need to get better game plan than just mustering up the confidence to keep a decent conversation. Bad bad - need to push more buttons, to be cocky in a better way, to just bombard them with game.

- Need to read up more on female psychology, 80% of what I'm doing SPAM doesn't hit the mark. I mean until now I was counting on confidence and masculine energy to get them turned on. Need a bit more.

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Shit has hit the fan, no more messing about.
Yesterday a b*tch that I wanted a serious relationship with said that I am trying to hard to fit in and that I am awkward and needy - friendzoned me.

This was the last drop

A. Discipline and optimism – get a proper programme going
B. Architecture portfolio – to get a job somewhere else
C. Architecture software – to get more cool skills going
D. Game – get a nice confidence and social ability to wrap it all up
E. Body – sort out gym and this insanity programme
F. Sex – get some new skills here

That's the gist of it, got it planned properly and all.

Will keep you guys posted on what solo stuff I will do, can't commit to anything just yet.

Lessons learned:

- My biggest sticking point is me thinking that I am not able to do this. That needs to get out and be replaced with optimism and lots of knowledge on social dynamics and psychology.
- I will start focusing on something else than being high energy - it is counterproductive. Probably will go more on the dynamics of what's going on so I say less random and more effective stuff.

Peace

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Don't fucking care, this is happening.

95% of people in the PUA community will never be successful. that makes it 1 in 20 guys ! so I can safely assume that you are all not going to make it. Who is going to be the one ? I guess its going to be Volcano. He's got the best game in here.

Day 32 in a row: I took an exam in the morning and then did a full body workout. I felt good for the rest of the day. The day got better and better. I had a Day 3 with the Vietnamese girl, which went great. I arrived 30 minutes late and she was still waiting when I got there. I felt guilty about making her wait, but time ran away from me while I was eating lunch. We met at
Victoria Square, talked for a while, and then I brought her to Wetherspoon's. We had a drink there and got to know each other a little better. After that, we parted ways. After the date, I was feeling even better than I did before. Terence and Jackal, when I later met up with them, said that my body language and vibe were a lot better than usual. In field, I was amazing myself. I was able to stop sets with ease. I was being more dominant and doing more kino than normal. I now understand how important state is.

SLICK - YOU NEED TO ACCESSORIZE.

SLICK, I saw you yesterday with JACKAL and TERENCE. I think you really need to improve on the dress sense. If you look above, I have posted the qualities of alpha male both inner and outer. You need to groom yourself better. Try peacocking..just a bit of extra style will go a long way. Wear a pendant, arm band, hat , rings on your finger or something. It will not look too loud and will surely improve your body confidence. Your carelessness in dressing only shows that you don't care about yourself and do not love yourself. Be more narcissistic if you want to. Do not worry about others. Just love yourself. An alpha male loves himself even if the whole society tries to topple him down and tarnish his image because he knows exactly who he is. He is self assured. At the same time, he will not get revenge with people who have wronged him. Violence is the ultimate low-status behaviour and should always be avoided. You tried to emulate Volcano when he shouted out loud in wetherspoons paradise forum. Violence, aggression, hostility and hatred are the things which need to be avoided like a snake. When you do this, you will automatically rise above all.

First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.

DON JUAN - YOU NEED TO APPROACH.

DON JUAN, I saw you the other day with YOU and YOURSELF. I think you really need to improve on your approach muscle. Try approaching girls. Just a little approaching can go a long way. Your carelessness in the game only shows that you don't care about yourself and do not love yourself.

Hey guys, just joined the forum and this thread caught my attention. I live in Birmingham and I'd be up for meeting up and doing some day approaches, going out to bars/clubs, whatever really.

SLICK - you are totally right. I have never approached a girl in my entire life. You, VOLCANO and JACKAL tried to teach me how to approach. But I just don't have the balls to do it. That is exactly why I was banned from the JACKAL crew. Can you give me some tips on how to deal with approach anxiety ? Cos you totally don't seem to have any AA.

And yes, I am quite lonely and unhappy. I feel so bad these days that sometimes I contemplate suicide. I don't even have guy friends. How can I even dream of having female friends ? I saw you, JACKAL and TERENCE, DIAMONDS, JIMBEAM all together in a group and I felt like you guys are the coolest people on the planet. I felt so bad that I have got kicked out of such a great gang of sexy guys. When you walk on by, girls be lookin like damn you fly. You rock the club like bruce lee. I heard some girl looking at you and telling her friend "Girl look at that body". When you walk on the street, everybody stops and stare at you. You guys have got passion in your pants and you ain't afraid to show it. You guys are sexy and you know it. Please accept me back as your friend. I really want to be with you guys again and I miss you so bad.