Basically, I want to give my girlfriend the best sex possible.
I've heard so many times of guys making their girlfriends come over 20 times in a row, and I just don't freaking get how thats possible lol.

The most I've done with my current girlfriend is 2 in a row...is there a strategy to making this happen?

Note:
-I'm her first sexual partner
-She doesn't really enjoy clitoral stimulation (unless I'm just really bad at it - feel free to give me tips on this too) including recieving oral.
-When she comes once, she rests and is tired and we usually sleep afterwards. Ie, her horniness is pretty much gone in the same way mine is after I finish.
-I know it's personal info, but I feel it should be noted. My penis is slightly shorter than average length. Girth is slightly above average. Would this play a major role?

I don't know if she just doesn't find me attractive, or if I'm really shit at sex.
She initiates sex like 40% of the time which is good, so I'm pretty sure she likes it. I just can't help but feel that maybe it's NOT her, and maybe I suck heaps.

So my main questions are:
-How is multiple orgasm achieved?
-Can every girl achieve it?
-If you are a guy who can get girls to, do you need to be really well hung?
-What do I need to do in order to get her wanting more sex after she orgasms once, and then how do I do it to get her there again, and again?

So like, help me. Haha thanks a lot in advance

How? Give me 10 minutes with her.

Take those stories with a grain of salt. Most men tend to exaggerate things. Unless you and your buddies are having an orgy with many girls in one room where you can see for yourself what's really happening, treat the talk as nothing but talk.
I've already made several posts discussing this based on the scientific researches and clinical practice experiences of Kline-Graber and my own experiences and field tests. I'm too lazy to look for them now but you can try looking for those.
Most girls can achieve multiple orgasms. They just don't know it yet or their husbands and boyfriends don't really know how to give it to them. A few, yep that's a few, are one shot deals.

I can no longer paste your quote on my editing board and I can't exactly remember the other questions so that's it for now.

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Hello.

Women can achieve different kinds of orgasms, clitoral being the easiest to achieve. It depends on a woman how many clitoral orgasms she can achieve. If she is very sensitive it can be only few. That's because clitoris is equivalent to penis (you can only cum once in a short period of time). There are other orgasms aswell; a G-spot orgasm, which is achieved by stimulating her G-spot (easiest to find when she's aroused). There's also a ''deep spot'' orgasm, achieved by stimulating deep spot. Check out internet for more particular guide on those 2.

As far as clitoral stimulation goes; If you are too aggressive it might hurt her. Try and see, if she is very sensitive don't directly stimulate her clit, do it through her vaginal lips or ''jerk'' it off. Try different stuff, see how she reacts. And for oral stimulation, try alphabet (move tongue in alphabet motion to see which kind of movement pleasures her the best). Some women like sucking some women don't. Some women like if you blow on their clit. The main tip would be: try out different things, see how she responds.

Personally, I do not penetrate her until I've made her cum at least once.

First, understand that women have varying levels of sensitivity the same way they have varying personalities, hair styles, senses of humor, etc. Her vagina is not an engine; the same set of tools that works on one may not even fit another, so don't expect similar results to what your friends have told you about. (And, as someone mentioned before me, understand that the value of what your friends tell you about their sex lives is virtually nil.)

My point is that you shouldn't expect to get more out of her than you're already getting. It may be possible, and we'll address that later in the post, but don't think that just because other women have multiple orgasms that all women have to. This is not the way the world works.

Second, understand that the female orgasm is something like 90% mental and 10% physical, meaning that any lingering hangups she has (issues with her body, for example) may cause her to enjoy sex less than she otherwise would if she were more secure. Since this girl is sexually inexperienced, this is likely a big part of the 'problem.'

For these reasons, making her cum more often is the result of NOT doing two things:

1) DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONALLY. The size of your package and the relative attractiveness of your body have little or nothing to do with this, so don't exacerbate the problem by getting insecure yourself.

2) DO NOT TALK ABOUT IT WITH HER LOGICALLY. You're supposed to be communicating emotionally, so rather than sit down and 'have a talk' about her lack of cumming, try a little sexy talk mid-coitus instead. Tell her how her goddess-like body looks like it was sculpted by angels and the way her skin glows while it's bathed in candlelight and how good it feels to be buried inside her while her hot body is press tightly against yours and blah blah blah - you get the idea. Basically, you want to convey the idea that she is so beautiful, so perfect, that you are consumed by your lust for her.

Follow this advice, and I have a feeling the situation will resolve itself over time.

Your boy,
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