My ex and I broke up just over a month ago. I was really hesitant at first but I eventually agreed to it. At first it was just a "break" then she made it official all the while never answering any of my many phone calls to ask why? Yes, phoning her a bunch was a bad thing to do.

A week later another girl is flirting on my facebook wall saying I should text her and that we should hang out. I never initiated any of this flirting stuff. All the while we were on official facebook break up. I was still texting her and stuff (bad mistake I know) I was always texting her first and stuff. Then a few days after this girl posted on my wall, I texted my ex again, and we were talking for a bit. Then my ex asked me "So your over me then eh ? " and before I responded she sent another text, "only if you bring the hot chocolate " then she said to disregard the hot chocolate text. My friend told me to reply with "Just keeping options open " from there my ex went into total rage jealousy mode saying I was a scumbag and that she hopes I never do this to another girl. ( I was still in love with her, I have no idea why I said the options thing. )

So I kept saying sorry a bunch of times, and begging and pleading for her. She kept saying no and to leave her alone (I thought it was a test to see if I would really try for her). And it has gotten to a point where she said she would never ever get back together with me and she doesn't care that we won't be. So I agreed with her once again that this was the best for us to not be together so she doesn't have the upper hand. (I really do want her but I have to stop acting desperate)

The last thing she texted me was "your going to be blocked in 5 mins AHAH CYA"

She has said that she will block my number before but didn't so you never know and she hasn't unfriended me on facebook or anything like that. So how do I go about getting her back?

And one last note, she was the one that said she was in love with me first, she really meant it, even her friends were telling me she has never felt this way about a guy before.

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Follow this guys advice. He knows his shit.

Side story. I was hung up on an ex, and one of my cousins wouldnt shut the hell up about it. It started a fist fight between me and him. After the fight my sweet little grandmother simply looked me in the eye and said, "You need to be a man and grow the fuck up and get over her". That was all I needed to hear.

So, I say to you, Grab your balls, delete everything that involves her in anyway, and get the fuck past her.

I can feel for you. A few years ago this would have been the same story coming out of my mouth. The best thing you can do is stop chasing woman! We all do it or have done it. We are constantly trying to validate ourselves through them. You need to get to a point where woman are chasing you. This includes your ex. She's too far gone. I have to say move on...

I want to try one last time with her, she was my first girl and everything xD she knows it too

I get it, I really do, BUT if she knows that she knows she holds the power. I just dont want to see you become a AFC....

Try something different! DO NOT TEXT/CALL/EMAIL Her for 7 days! See if she seeks you and and tries to open contact. If she doesn't try what we say she will, then do things your way, but if she does, then listen to the advice of those of us on here who have been through EXACTLY what you are going through now!!!

Peace...

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"If she doesn't try what we say she will, then do things your way, "

Does that mean if she doesn't open contact within 7 days just move on completely? And eventually she might come around but don't worry if she doesn't?

by the way, this girl was really really sexually attracted to me, even when she had a boyfriend she was telling friends that I was really cute etc and she knows that I can get basically any girl I want.

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One of the last thing she texted me *3ish or 4 days* ago was "I think I should stop talking with you because I don't ever want to be back together, and I don't care."

If she left out the "I don't care then it would be way more harsh, but the I don't care sort of means that she is still showing emotion about me?