dont worry bro being skinny is not a turnoff.being fat can be a bit of a turnoff but girls generally date alot of skinny dudes.im skinny and i never had any trouble seducing women because of it.

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Just went to weigh myself out of interest, turns out I made an error: I'm actually 5'10 and 120lb. Sorry for the error, I either weighed more before or just clean forgot.


I appreciate all the replies, it's nice to see my question is being answered. I'd say the ones who pointed out that it's a problem that I have with myself are probably right on the button. I've always been thin as a razor, but it wasn't until I started to get into girls that I had a problem.


I've had a few comments before, things generally like "I like you, but I could never be with you - you look like I'd snap you in two!" and things like that, plus girls who have laughed at me when I said I'd give them a piggyback. Skinny girls, too.

I suppose that doesn't do much for morale, so when I'm approaching I constantly have it in the back of my mind that perhaps she'll not like me because I look like a twig.

Perhaps framework and things like that are beyond my control, but it would be nice not to be able to see the bones in my shoulders and things like that. I'll take a trip over to the fitness section and see what I can rustle up.

Thanks, brosephines!

That my fine friend is something called "flirting" - they want you to qualify yourself to them because they want to see if you like them; you're giving up at the wrong point in the interaction! Just when they want more of you you quit! So yes you are cock blocking yourself; go out there and find those chicks and keep gaming them!

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One time a girl told me "I don't date guys who aren't taller than me and gave me this stupid grin"

I said wipe that smile off your face because you and me are never ganna happen anyways. She laughed and touched me, and I made out with her. She's cute and every time I see her, she flips me off. I kissed her the last time she did it.

She's a SERIOUS PUA. More than normal girls. Everytime I touch her without thinking about it...shes like OH you're touching me...trying to make this all CUTE hu...stop making it CUTE. I want to twist your nipples.

I'm only 5'9, and this one girl I met had this criterion that you "must be over 6 feet to ride this ride". When I knew she was sprung on me I reminded her of this...all she did was look at me, grabbed my cock as I was driving and said "you make up for it in other ways...".

When a girl has criterion, ignore it it means fuck all at the end of the day her behavior is the only thing that counts. Women 1/2 the time are full of verbal diarrhea anyway.

LMAO!!! once again the man speaks the truth!

It's definitely not all about the big muscly guys. There are a lot of skinny guys out there are are in with the hotties.

I'm not anorexic but quite skinny, I'm gaining weight which is good and would love to be ripped but I don't care enough to go out and hit the gym. So as long as you're healthy and not geeky, it's ok.

When I graduated high school I was 6'0" and 145lbs. I didn't have an abundance of girls but when I wanted one, I got one. Always the hot blonde type that my jock buddies would be amazed by. I was always insecure about my weight though. I hated it. I just couldn't gain weight.

There are lots of hot girls out there that love skinny guys like you and me. Just own it. Be it. Rock it and don't worry too much about what you see in the mirror. I don't know how old you are but you'll fill out as you get older. I finally started gaining weight at 27 yo. I've been steady at 185 for the last 7 years.

Do you have any ink done? I don't have any but I see lots of skinny guys with sleeves done. It adds a look of volume to the arms. Makes them appear bigger. Hey, If you can't beat it, own it.

hit the gym dude. take up a martial art. this stuff is healthy, good for inner game, and feels good.

all this "acting alpha" shit. it's great and all, but nothing makes you feel more alpha than when other men move out of your way and wuss-out infront of their gf's because they feel you are lethal.

women dig this stuff. and the coolest thing is if you are actually intelligent, successful, driven and passionate, while looking like a killer. they get wet, trust me. i have not been into PUA material for years. was (and still am, on some level) total afc-like when approaching girls oh shit, but i got laid a lot! why? i AM alpha, i don't act.

do kickboxing and/or judo. in 1 year, you will not only be more healthy, more attractive and more confident, but you will notice a new world open to you. all of a sudden, you get away with a lot of shit. fear is better than love (read machiaveli).

and the best HB's want a david beckham, a pablo escobar. they may settle for a broke magic show for a ONS, but they will move on to the real men sooner or later. these guys can't keep real top-women around for long.

whcih one of the two do you want to be?

QFT

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I forgot to add this earlier but, a friend of mine, who if I had to rate is a 7/8, was showing me some guys she had dated in the past and a few of them looked like they couldnt fight their way out of a wet paper bag. While women want a man who has a strong sense of masculinity, physical strength does not equal masculinity necessarily.

Russel Brand is a good example. Skinny, shit hair, but has 'it' and has had more women than that. Its about being confident with who you are.

If anyone thinks you need to be muscly, like 666man seems to think, have a look at Joey Essex. I swear I get such a big headache with the amount of girls that fancy him. He could have any girl he wanted. And the only reason he became famous was because of his success. I bet he'd still be reeling in the hot girls if he wasn't famous.

I am pretty much the exact same, 140sh pounds, same height, tho i did Cross Country so my legs have muscle, but my arms are really small. My biggest problem is displaying interest and pushing forward, just keep an aura of having been around the block many times b4, and girls will see you as confident and worth ur attention.

if this is an issue that is causing you to feel insecure, then hit the gym so you can feel better about yourself, raise your daily calorie intake, eat cleanly and make sure you are getting your 1 gram of protein per lb, and a good high carb intake (assuming you are ecto with a high metabolism), then lift lift lift and be extremely happy if you can put on 10-20 lbs of muscle in a year, keep at it until you like what you see

if it is a problem for you, then it will be a problem for girls, guarenteed, if you feel like you are not good enough, this will echo through all the things you do, you have to accept yourself and be confident, looks are completely subjective, the worlds largest man who is bed ridden weighing over 2000 lbs has a wife.... he has a WIFE..... 2000LBS, if you think about it, no matter how negatively you view yourself there is someone else out there with a worse physical situation then you, and they are getting laid, you just have to find a girl that is into you and your look, and the more confident/secure you are within yourself the more of those women there will be

if you are looking to women to validate you so that you can believe you are worthy, it will destroy your game, this will only put you into a negative state running around seeking approval, and when you don't get the validation, it will lower your self esteem assuming you base your emotional state off of external validation rather then from within, this will only purpetuate a negative feedback loop that will lead you into a depression, there are girls out there that like you for who you are, as long as you can actually see it for yourself