So was on Facebook about two weeks ago when a female i know had written how "with the men of today have no chance" i cemented that she should try men of my nationality. she made no ocomment then about 2 days later she messaged me saying "so you think that xxxx men are better?"

I told her she would have to try one and she laughed. then i told her i am coming to her city in two weeks and told her we should meet up. she didn't agree to anything yet but has asked when and where then asked how many people are coming. she also through this asked me to add her on SPAM and gave me her number.

I haven't come back to her on how many people are coming, i was wondering two things.

Do you think its worth saying to her " would you rather we met up on our own?"

Im running on the strength of her messaging me about guys of my nationality as my ioi do you agree its a strong ioi?

There is also a slight language barrier. I've had a long dry patch so i want to get this right![list=][/list]

I understand that you've been through a dry spell and don't want to fuck up with her but do not ask her to decide anything. You must tell her where you will be and what time. If she can't be there but offers an alternative, then go with it. But you have to take the lead first and set your frame. She will see you aren't afraid to lead.

No it isn't an IOI. It's a message over Facebook.

If you want to know if it's an IOI - call her now, tell her when you're going to be at a certain place, it'll probably just be a few friends with you (it doesn't matter), maybe a couple of hotties (use whatever term you like), and she should be there. You gain compliance this way, and end questions.


Why the hell do people message people on Facebook they don't really know and think it's some invitation to fuck? There's a .0001% chance of that happening. Get real. It could be boredom, it could be curiosity, she could be writing a fucking paper on men of your nationality. What you CAN do is gain complaince and see if there are any actual IOIs.

RR

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What he said, basically.