This weekend just brought an amazing thing to my attention.

The most important and mind blowing is the fact that after just three months as a practicing PUA, my social skills and game have surpassed every person I have ever looked to as being good with women.

There are guys I went to school with, worked with, or have just met out at bars who have bragged about getting laid. I always thought they had figured out some secret to getting women that they each were just born with.

It turns out they don't have a clue what they are doing. I've asked each of them what their secret is. Some have maybe one line/trick that will occasionally get them results. Consistency, that doesn't happen.

Now they see me talking to a group of girls, they ask for details, they ask for my secret, they want to know how I do it. My game is still in the works, sure. I still have no idea what I'm doing, of course. How many times have I gotten laid since I started? Let's not get into that yet.

The only thing that separates me from them is that I look at each situation as a learning experience. I'm figuring this shit out as I go. I'm willing to acknowledge that I have made a mistake at some point. I don't blame the girl for something not working out. I meditate on it and try to come up with a different way I could have dealt with the situation. Then I act accordingly next time

Everyone has their own game and expectation as far as results. I judge no man based on how or where he gets his lay. I can learn from any man's successes as well as their failures.

I'm only three months in. I'm already past the point that anyone I already know can help me. That's why I'm here. This community is the largest mass of experience I have ever come across. We're in this together. I'm grateful I discovered this place. I hope to someday add to the knowledge base found here.

After only three months I'm in a place I never could have imagined. I can't even fathom where I will be in three more months or even a year down the road.

Personal growth is limitless. The possibilities are endless.

I already swallowed the red pill. It's too late to turn back now.

Let's see what happens.

Congrats and keep it up! Seems like you are truly happy with the changes you've made in your life.

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I remember when I wrote this post! The realization post and Jsmooth gave me something to think about then too. He told me that soon I will see the changes improve all aspects of my life, not just pickup.

Sorry to quote you man, but that one post meant a lot to me.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

No problem

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Haha I guess this probably would be a very common post. I had the urge to tell someone and this forum seemed like the best place to do it. This weekend I'm going to have to work on situational openers.

I've been sticking to a basic "I've always been really shy..." Sort of thing. It's really great to get any set to open up. Most lately have been responding with "you don't seem shy." To which I change the subject to how "I used to be ridiculously shy in school." then I put the attention on them.

Admitting that gets almost instant rapport. I'd like to develop more spontaneity in my openings though. This weekend is going to start out slow I suppose.

I've been noticing huge changes in every aspect of my life. I'm also becoming a much stronger story teller too. I can captivate any audience as long as the right thing inspires my memory.

Now in conversation stories from my childhood that I haven't thought about in years come to mind sand I can articulate them beautifully. Some of the stuff that comes out of my mouth surprises me even. I'm having fun just listening to myself. If it reminds a girl of something from her child hood then it's just an added perk.

cool man, good shit

Bluu, you said you're looking for a quality wing man. I'm looking for the same. It sounds like we can learn from each other and also grow even more together. I've been on this journey for a few years now. I'm considered a natural and looked up to by many for my skills and close rates. Hit me up my friend!

You're my BOY Bluu!

Love the post man. Glad you're having some success. I'm an experienced wing and I live in your area. Get in touch when you're ready.