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PostPosted: Wed May 23, 2012 7:14 am 
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So I work with this girl and I meet her about a month and a half ago. Anyway we talk alot at work and eventually she invited me to a concert and said " i should/would like it because she likes it". So we went and she hooked up with another guy. The next day she said that she would have to hangout with me more because I helped her out at work. the day after that she told me that her girlfriends think i'm hot that took me by surprise becasue idc what her girlfriends think i like her so i didn't know what to say so i said i appreciate it. Anyway the day after that i said to her hey remember how you told me your friends think i'm hot? well my friend i introduced you to thinks youre beautiful. she said that just put a big smile on my face chris, looks like were both hot and did well. Later she walked by and i said why are you looking at my sandwich and she said i'm not I'm looking at you hot stuff. And also made a comment about how I shouldn't worry my cute self. However I texted her later(as in a day) and she texts me back but doesn't make any effort to text me first and doesn't ever ask me any questions about myself. so does she like me ? What should I do ?

Something to add, she also asked if I would go to a few more concerts with her later in the summer and to a tailgate in a week and a half.


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PostPosted: Wed May 23, 2012 7:19 am 
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Enough with the bullshit, man-up and ask her out already.


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PostPosted: Wed May 23, 2012 7:25 am 
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I've debated this, but obviously she likes me to some extent. i just don't know if it's as a friend or more than that. I'd hate to ask her earlier then necessary and get shoot down when I can take a little more time to get her to like me more.


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PostPosted: Wed May 23, 2012 8:03 am 
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I've debated this, but obviously she likes me to some extent. i just don't know if it's as a friend or more than that. I'd hate to ask her earlier then necessary and get shoot down when I can take a little more time to get her to like me more.
blah blah blah blah blah...just more microavoidance

girls like guys who aren't afraid to take risks AND escalate things. Go sit and build all the comfort in the world to make things less 'awkward' for her if you enjoy being the friend she can always count on...


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PostPosted: Wed May 23, 2012 8:26 am 
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I've debated this, but obviously she likes me to some extent. i just don't know if it's as a friend or more than that. I'd hate to ask her earlier then necessary and get shoot down when I can take a little more time to get her to like me more.
Seriously?
I think the advice givin so far is spot on.
Just Ask Her Out Dewd
Yah sure theres alil interest on her part, and she's been the one making the moves. By asking YOU out and stuff, giving YOU the opportunity to escalate the relationship...
But what do YOU do? Nothing!!!
sooner or later that girl will lose interest, Cause she's putting herself out there calling you "cute", asking you out and you're just not reacting.
In short if you don't, man-up soon you're on your way to the friend zone amigo.

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PostPosted: Wed May 23, 2012 9:02 am 
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Want to know if she likes you?
Ask her out.

If she says "no" chances are by having stuck around to build comfort would only solidify you into the friendszone. If she says "no" at least you know early on before getting too invested and can free yourself of thoughts of her and game others (which you should be doing anyway).

If she says "yes", well then...


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I'm beginning to like agentprovacateur more and more


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