I am entertaining the choice, not attacking you. The fact is you are a shitty boyfriend, but at the same time I'm saying it's not your fault. You keep saying if things don't work out "how much you'll regret it"

Fucking decide now. How is cheating going to make you not regret it any less? You're making absolutely no fucking sense at this point. And way to not answer any of the questions. The fact is I do find you OP to be a complete pussy in this regard and trying to keep a girlfriend and then saying you don't want to have any regrets.

Sorry to say it buddy, that's not how this works. Make up your mind. Either stay with the girl you are bored of, or move on and get bored of the new one. If you believe this is 'man's nature' then what the fuck are you even posting here for? Validation? You won't find any here.

Also FYI, do not keep double standards. Your answer said it all. I'm guessing you'd break down if she did the same, ironic how it works. We can sit here debating women's nature and man's "nature" but don't mistake a woman's nature in finding a man who knows what he wants from his relationship and moving on.

lol When it comes to human nature, there is no disputing it: Women have one seed to offer at at time, so they go for quality in a mate. Men can spread thousands of seeds and go for quantity, or pick one crazy good plot of soil and stick with it. There is some evidence that women will cheat on occasion even if in a happy relationship, but on the whole they aren't going to go get a belly full of cum as you so eloquently put it.

This is about a choice I have to make. I realize that this would hurt her. I do care about her. But there are negatives to staying in the situation as well. I guess I started this topic to see if guys have regretted playing it safe or taking the chance. This is about a man's life.

I'm making a lot of sense. Cheating would make me regret it less because I won't have lost a shit ton of time with one girl in my prime. I have fucked up with women back when I was an AFC, and the regret of knowing I made this mistake or that mistake sucked to live with. If I pass up tons of women now that I know how to lay one, and the REASON I passed them up was one girl whom it didn't work out with, that would suck ass.

It would also suck ass hurting someone and wondering what could have been. The ideal answer to my OP would have come from someone who has seen it both ways. Cheated and regretted it, and not cheated and wondered why the fuck he passed up so much pussy during that time period with an unclear situation.

PS. You look like a hybrid of Kumar and James Franco lol

Corona too much white knighting, lets be honest when you are 75 with your wife who pisses herself, you wont be regretting about how you put your dick in a greener pasture and lost your gf.

We got limited time on this planet, it's better to be the bad guy. Lets be honest we don't live with other peoples feelings, it only matters how we feel. When I die I don't care if I died young or died old, as long as I accepted that I lived my life with no regrets.

Lol Kumar + James Franco...thanks I guess?

Look...I want to point out I have done both.

Cheated + Regret = You cheat, and you think it's great but the regret comes in having taken advantage of a girl's trust in you as a guy.

It's clear you're using a lot of Mystery Method bullshit about women's nature and how they only STAY for ONE seed, but man take your ego out of this equation. Welcome to the modern era and the period of BIRTH CONTROL. Women don't mind having a BELLY full of CUM, you are dead mistaken. We can talk about evolutionary bullshit but it's all mental masturbation. If you actually think she's 'less likely to cheat' you're in for a world of hurt when a girl pulls the same shit you're pulling on her. I tend to keep a "leave them better than you found them" approach. You clearly don't feel this way. You're saying you care for her so much, but yet you are in your 'fucking prime'

Then embrace it and fucking move on from her. It's really that fucking simple. You're just seeking validation for cheating - nothing more.

As for the concept of staying put with 1 girl and feeling like you're missing out: Yes this can happen. It's not 'AFC' but realistically thinking "man I'm missing out on such great THINGS with other girls!" and then thinking "BUT WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN WITH HER?" you're just a big chode. Where do you really expect cheating to take you? Into a relationship?

If you like to begin your relationships based on lies - more power to you. I just play a different game than you. Either way, its your choice. But between you and me, I think you give yourself way too much credit. It's good but also bad.

Well, my girl is real needy (I give her my attention so she doesn't brood over it either), so on the topic of whether she'd screw me over or not, or if shes not content, I'm going to have to say no, but thank you and the rest of you guys for posting. Repped!

Mystery Method? Haha yeah sure bro.

Anyway I know dude, we all have the chance to have great experiences. Personally if my GF wasn't the only girl who got my dick to jump in my mind and I even had the THOUGHTS of contemplating cheating I would end it. I understand that we as men need to lead women but we also need to leave them better than we found them, she hasn't done anything to deserve betrayal of her trust so I wouldn't hurt her intentionally.

Anyway to the OP, this kind of thing is all or nothing man, either you want to be with the girl or you don't. Maybe you should just add more adventure to the relationship.

Anyway Corona I agree with you bro, was just putting up the other side to the equation. No need to turn good/sweet girls into freaks just because your dick wants to ruin her.

Ah nothing like that. I'm just saying may not be THIS particular girl, but girls out there exist to fuck a guy over regardless of what we think about the seed stuff. True...I have found girls get needy after the relationship becomes sexual....this for me is a turn off....but then when I'm back in the single life and I find like its so much more thrilling to be without a girl that wants that...and when I sit there staring at a ceiling as a man who just had sex with another girl...I can't help but to think that as a man or rather a human being that will die 1 day: maybe there is more.

Whatever you decide to do - power to you. You live once. Cheat, but expect it to come with unforeseen consequences. Sometimes...it's not until certain things happen that we realize what we are really about. I cheated, I was in your position...it hurt. It hurt bad. I suppose it made me better, but that memory doesn't fade.

I suppose I was trying to protect you in a way here...but in the end: you will do what it is you want to do. Either way, hopefully you learn something out of it.

Well dude, you're young & immature, which is why you rationalize it like this. Cheating ultimately is stupid and assholic unless the relationship is agreed to be open, but you're not going to realize this until you're caught at it.

So do it, get it out of your system, and get caught for the experience. It'll teach you WHY not to do it.

And looking at all the factors you posted, pretty good chance you'll get caught.

Ask your self this, are you willing to loose your girlfriend over this? If so then go ahead and cheat. But as some others said, go and cheat and learn your lesson the hard way. Its pretty clear you are on the verge of doing it might as well jump in the pool because there is no putting your toe in the water here, you either jump in or not. Now id you where smart and mature you would end things with her. As more than likely this relationship has run its course and you want to be single again and not tied down.

Lionheart...

I'm not going to read through all of this, Capn Jack nailed it early on, and you're throwing out excuse-after-excuse.

You start with shit about "when you're in love...." "I'm intelligent"..... You're a kid! You're still a kid. It's not an insult, don't get your panties in a wad - it's the TRUTH.

If you don't want her, levae her. If you want other pussy - leave her. If not - YOU are a pussy.

She's seeing long-term. You're seeing other people? YOU ARE WASTING HER FUCKING TIME.

She deserves the truth. If you want other pussy - end the relationship.

This isn't rocket science, and I'm not going to debate you. YOU KNOW THIS! Stop with the fucking excuses. You're only trying to excuse pussy-hunting as a natural thing. It is, I do it... but I've not been in a committed relationship for going on 2 years now for that very reason, it's not fair to the woman!

Fucking A... why is this even a discussion!

RR

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