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Witty and funny shouldn't be a problem, providing you don't come across as clownish. Sarcasm is fine provided as it doesn't come across as mean.
Can you give some examples of how your witty, funny, sarcasm is having a negative effect?
I think its more of me not knowing how to use it to get girls. Usually my sarcasm is situational, which serves as a good opener; this also applies to being funny/witty as well. After thinking about it for a little bit, I think I need to communicate my intentions ( of the sexual nature ) better, and does all that require being blunt?