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don't go searching for women to make eye contact with or to smile at, let it happen naturally otherwise it's quite needy.
Again, I disagree with you. You just said to not search for women to smile at you. Yes you can. It is simply a matter of directing your focus on what you want to do, not on the response. Even let's say if deep down inside you don't want to smile, yet you're able to focus your attention on smiling to be genuine and not needy, you will get good responses from girls. You're basically saying that if it doesn't happen naturally, it's needy; which is not true at all and I've done this many times (not with smiling, but with more difficult tasks).
It's needy because YOU give it that interpretation. In your own reality, you define it as needy, therefore other girls will think it's needy. But if you're able to focus and detach yourself from the outcome, you can be genuinely non - needy and have amazing responses from any girl you want.
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When you're walking through the mall you're focussed on the women when your focus should be your life, where you're going, what you're doing etc
When you want to attract a woman, you don't focus on where you're going or if you're eating a sandwitch. You focus on getting to know the girl and removing yourself from any possible feelings of neediness. You approach with a feeling of desire. Focusing on where you're walking or what you're doing is not going to make a difference in being needy at all. You'll simply look pre-occupied