Situation so you have a better understanding, sorry its so long but bare with me please:

Got dumped by a 17 year old freak after 2.5 months of being with her. Bad sex, no chemistry, no sense of humor, poor girl, mad drama. I was always nice to her and total AFC. Paid for everything, she has no cash. Picked her up brought her home. We saw each other on Saturdays and always watched a movie in my room. OK so i begged her to give me another chance after she said it was probably better to stop ( she got bored and i was not a man ( she never said this but looking back at it this was most likely the cause), this was when we had about 2 months with each other. She gave me this chance because i begged like a little bitch.

After 2 weeks off the second chance we went swimming with another couple ( friends of hers ) I got some kino but i could tell she was annoyed and was real bitchy when talking so we barely talked. ( she was like this for the last 5 weeks but this time extreme, usually it was just on texts ) After swimming we went to her house to have dinner and already made plans a week before that i would sleep over. At the entire time ive been there she ignored me or when i said something she snapped at me, she just played with her phone while i sat next to her watching tv, her mom was also there, awkward shit, you have no idea.

After 5 hours of this she went to bed without telling me, she just stood up and went upstairs. 10 pm. At 10:30 i also went upstairs to go to sleep, i laid down and asked are you still up? No response. I started cuddling her a bit and after about 10 minutes she turned on her back so i could rub her pussy. She allowed me and after coming we went to sleep. At the entire time she did not say shit.

The next morning.... still same mood as day before, ice cold. I went downstairs, packed my shit and went home. She knew i had a job interview at 4, she texts me this at 3:45: "i cant do this anymore, things ends here between us. Have a good life." I replied with: "Get my ring, necklace and mothers heels ready'. "She sure but bitched about the heels". I went to her house to take my shit back, told her it was a low move to breakup over text and said some other things that felt good at the time. Now my mother gave her heels as a gift but i was so pissed that i insisted to give those back as well, she loved the heels ( all freaks love fashion ) and said if your mother wants them back she can call me and i will give them back, so i kept pushing to give them back. After 10 minutes of arguing about heels i said fine il go home and let my mother call you, she never did but i did went back to her house later to get those heels. When she saw my car in front of her house she opened the door, trowed the heels at me and said and now get the fuck out of here!

That was the last interaction i had with her. So yea we did not end things gracefully. I now regret getting my shit back as it was a gift but at the time and how she had been treating me it felt like the right thing.

After not talking to each other for 5 weeks now i want to send her a text on her birthday which is coming up next week in the hope of her replying friendly towards it. I was hoping by ignoring her and cutting her out of my life she would contact me but i am starting to think she forgot about me very quickly so a text might help. I want her back in my life as a fuck buddy as she is perfect for this!

i know she is been hanging around with low lifes and she will start a relationship with one of them very soon but i know it won't last, she is not made for long term.

So my plan is to get back to texting with her and eventually meet up and then i try to work my magic and hopefully turns things around.

What do you guys think is the best way to go around this?

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so a girl fucks you about and then dumps you and you now want her back? are you kidding me? i'd cut this bitch out of my life and go get someone a whole lot better

Yea i know its fucked up and all but i don't want her back for a long term relationship cause that is mad drama, i just wanna try and become friends with benefits. Seems like mission impossible looking at our situation but i am gonna try anyway.

This girl is so strong though! No fucking intention of texting me for 5 weeks straight since break-up and neither did i but i can't help thinking off her perfect titties, i know she has 500 guy friends she could sleep with any moment and she prolly has so that makes it easy for her to forget me but still, not even a text :S

I give it to June 1 and then shoot her something like: "Congrats.". Nothing more nothing less, no real intention of contact , just wanted to congrats her. Hopefully she will respond positively and might ask what ive been up to.

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by the sounds of it you do want her back for a relationship, and it doesn't matter how perfect her titties are, what is important she dumped you and you are lowering your value even more by trying to get back with her.

If she never texts you again so what? theres plenty out there that will

I don't know you, but if you were my RL friend I would call you an IDIOT!

Seriously, this girl is not worth your worst day...Move on dude, she has you punked and you are eating it up. Don't walk away, effing RUN!!!!

Peace...

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You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

I know what you guys are saying and trust me i do not want to get back into a relationship but i find it a great challenge to see if i can make her a friend with benefits. My real life friends do call me an idiot because i still talk about this girl a lot when around them even though they know what she did to me.

Throw all logic aside and please give me your thoughts about texting her, i will update this thread how things goes and make it a fun experiment.

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You want a friends with benefits relationship with her for two reasons:

1. Because you have no other options and are desperate

2. To get a type of ego confirmation that says “Yes, now I KNOW I’m Alpha because I conquered the greatest symbol of my Beta self"

The first will be simple to solve, you talk to other girls, fuck other women, and adopt an abundance mentality.

The second is the real kicker. Your lamentations about your relationship are all the result of a Oneitis. You are trying to post-rationalize your psychological dependency and need for ego affirmation by saying "I don't want a relationship, I just want to have secks," but it's not fooling anyone here. You want to be liked by someone who has rejected you. She represents your betaness, your AFC weaknesses, your inability to attract a girl, everything you hate. As a result, you subconsciously believe that by pumping and dumping her, you can give recompense to your ego. You think it will objectively measure some level of Alphaness, but so long as you need something to solidify your transition in the first place, you can’t get there. The end of the journey comes when you no longer want to quantify your progress.

Hence the real challenge, and something you will find out to be harder, is not getting back with her; but truly letting go. Your relationship with her is venomous to your overall well being, and development as a man. You MUST cut it loose, that's it.

You end with a quip about her hanging out with low lifes - how does that reflect on your own game? No women is void from wanting a long-term relationship. Every girl is, by definition of their gender, a hypergamous being. You believe she's not long-term material because she always perceived you as a beta, and thus, never treated your relationship as anything of value. I've met women like this before, and for years on end they think

"I'm just an unaffectionate girl"

or

"I'm just not ready to settle down."

Put them in the presence of a man they are attracted to down to their quaking vaginas, someone they perceive as a challenge, a purebred asshole who would drop them in a heartbeat if they exercised any of their regular antics, and you have a whole different beast. The cunt obeys the cock, every girl out there like the one you're mentioning acts that way until they find a stiff enough cock to command them.

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There are already some great points on this thread so I'll just throw in my two cents. Either 1. She is a one-itis that you can't or don't want to get over because its easy. 2. No pussy is worth that amount of freaking abuse. You fucking deserve better whether you realize it or believe it OR NOT. YOU DESERVE BETTER!

Don't go anywhere near her, in fact starting the moment you read this do something towards meeting and attracting someone else.

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Thank you Hakuna, ive read your solid advice a couple of times now and i can't argue with it. The challenge of REALLY letting her go is indeed far more difficult than just texting her on her birthday and having the hope of having her in my life again.

You nailed it on the ego, i want to show her ive changed so much and want her to like me and be super duper friends who fuck each others brains out just to make my ego think iam not longer a little bitch who got dumped by an 17 year old slut who crushed my self esteem which iam finally getting back slowly but surely.

But i can look at it from the bright side, 99% of the girls i will date in the future will be better then this one and i can finally be the alpha male girls love! I will do anything i can to get my perfect girl.

Keep up giving advice to each other guys! It really makes a huge difference to a men's life!

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Yea bro! Meeting new girls every week but i will finally get serious with them since i was kinda holding back because of this Antichrist who raped me emotionally. SHE IS OUT!

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we should start charging for this shrink appointments, they don't belong to a pua forum. nothing to see here move along.

I was thinking of making somekind of FAQ about this stuff. It happens so often.
"want your bitch gf back? follow this link"
"your gf cheated on you? this link"
"afraid of talking to womans? this link"
and so on.

Look I understand people have some strange addictions.
But I can't figure out for the life of me why you want to go back to a girl who used to beat you for talking out of line.

I hope you get help soon because you really need some counseling.

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Hahaha no dude its not that bad man! It was just my first real relationship and badly enough for me it was with a very bad girl. I will find myself a better girl and try to forget this one as soon as possible!

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WTF IS THIS SHIT?
noononononononooooooooooooooooooooo

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

this thread is full of fuck, hanuka and the rest are on point here, get more girls man, wtf is this shit?, this girl sounds like she has absolutely nothing of value to offer, she is not a good partner for you, you are better then this don't throw out your own self respect just because you are de-motivated and desperate, now is the time to stand the fuck up and go get girls, don't meet a girl tommorow, don't do it in two weeks, don't do it after you read X amount of articles and ebooks about pua, do it today, do it right now, right after reading this post, go out and talk to a girl, tommorow, go out and talk to a new girl, start doing it now, every day, always, make it a habbit, if you can manage that, this shit won't happen to you in the future, you won't be sitting there going, man... I fucking hate my girlfriend, she sucks in bed, she is boring to talk to, she is mean and a downright shitty person, but im worthless and can't get girls so she's my only option, IT'S BULLSHIT, you're so the man and you just don't even realize it because you haven't put yourself out there enough, if you had 10 other girls calling you right now this girl would be the last fuck that you give, if you call this girl you might as well smash your own balls with a hammer

TL:DR it's obvious you are focusing on ''the game'' and not actually meeting girls, you need options, make it happen
GOOD LUCK

So wait you said the sex was bad... But you want her as a fuck buddy?