learned one thing


So you know I was the guy who started here asking about being Indian and having it tough with women. Thing is, I never really put myself out there, I just fantasized on the internet all day long.

Slowly but surely, I approached, and approached, and traveled, and approached, and traveled, and approached some more. I told myself, when I come back here, I will come back with life experiences, a story to tell, and results.

Recently I returned from my trip to California (stayed a lot in Newport Beach). The same blondes I was having issues with down here, I didn't have much issues with in Newport Beach when it came to getting numbers, dates, and sleeping with them. In my 2 weeks spent in Newport Beach I managed to get 3 girls in bed with me and score a date with 6 of them.

What I found was that being away from home, I was a different person, I was a lot more confident when I visited that part of California with 2 of my friends. I was happier for sure.

Now have I had women tell me they were not into Brown guys? YUP.

GUESS WHAT? I STILL managed to get their numbers and get them into me because here is the truth about "preferences".

1. Most women say they have em, but really they don't in most cases and there are too many exceptions to them
2. A lot of them are seasonal, today a girl won't like black guys due to a certain reason and will say she doesn't but a few days later she likes them again
3. A huge difference between what women say and what women do
4. A lot are based off of stereotypes, Indian guys have x and whatever so I won't date them, and a lot of those stereotypes go away at first meeting them
5. Most of the times, women say they are not into certain guys to make a scene in front of their friends or to make themselves look tougher to get

PS: One girl I was with was from Russia, said her dad was a skinhead that hated immigration and when we made out she often did say racial slurs lol.

I hope my experiences stay like this.

HOW ARE YOU GUYS?

I am heading to France in June!

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Go to India as well, I think there are 500.000.000 indian ladies for you to choose from

Well at least it got through to you. Better late than never. Women do have preferences and there are some that may be unwilling to budge on them but the majority will tell you that if the right guy came along none of it would matter.

do you have a problem with interracial dating?

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real indian, will post pic up just to prove it if you want

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

I am glad you finally open your dam eyes up and see what we been telling you was all in your head.

crap, you are in cali

should have tried to meet ya!

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You and your dates are not my problem

you just hinted right there that I should stick with my own kind

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I wanted to help, since you have some issuess with women not from your kind you could simply stick with your kind for even better results. Unless you somehow state that women from your kind are worse. In this case do not blame caucasian women thinking that you are not good for them as it would be hypocritic

ok so that is what you basically said

rather sad really but

1. that advice in itself is bad, indian dude hypothetically seeing bad results with white women? tell him to up his style and games

2. we aren't in the 1800s anymore, so why should I have to stick with my own kind?

I mean come on guy you basically implied it, I don't think there is anything wrong if I date a White woman or sleep with you? why do you have a problem with it?

mods, seriously, I want to know why that guy has an issue with my expanding my boundaries, I just want to know that's all

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gonna be honest here, that ain't me

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lol. Maybe we should the next time your in the OC.

probably?

I do have imitators from bodybuilding.com who copy my posts and take them on to other forums, usually it is trolls, one of whom actually stole my avatar

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