In all seriousness. do be careful what advice you listen to.

by all means don't listen to me.

I was once a regular on a spiritual forum. It was so exciting at first. They all seemed to know what they were talking about. Fourth dimensions, lifting the veil, and remote veiwing and all that jazz...

the last time i checked they were all harping on about gnomes, pixies and fairies etc...and everyone was totally buying into it...geez..

my point being, forums are like forests...sometimes you can't see the wood for the trees..

i had no trouble pulling babes when i was in my 20's to 30's...no trouble. i had no game whatsoever. i wasnt even interested in pulling. probably why i had such a good success rate. now i'm 38 and recenty out of a relationship and i'm like...shit...i gotta find someone before i'm left on the scrap heap so i'm all desperate and shit. and as you all know desperate is about as 'anti-game' as you're gonna get.

just be careful. and relax. i say this more to myself than anyone else....

I wouldn't listen to me much either.

I only post and reply to other peoples situation as a way of testing myself of what I'd do. If nobody quotes me telling me I'm stupid then I guess I did ok. But seriously that's the only reason I post, to see if my views or what I'd do is correct.

That's how it started off...I do like to genuinely help people who remind me of myself.

Haha, I'd agree with that. I am sort of trying to help people, but there is definitely an element of wanting feedback on my help as well - is it good advice, if so then great, if not then how could it be better and then I can adapt it myself. That's all good. I would sort of agree with Rufus as well that I don't take anyone as being one hundred percent right all the time just because they've got a high post count or because they say they're experts who have bedded so many girls. They probably do give lots of good advice, but I'm always sceptical and try to sieve out the dodgy stuff from the better stuff.

always take everything with a grain of salt, the forums are more like a compilation of people's opinions based off their personal experience/perspective, the problem with that is sometimes people voice their opinions when they have a strong perspective but absolutely 0 experience to base their views off of

it is probably a good idea when getting advice to trust your instincts to follow a path that suites you, getting ideas from other people is awesome, and new insights can help you see things in a way you never thought of before, but sometimes what works for one guy will not suite the personality of another guy, maybe the guy that gave the advice even gets good success with what he is doing, how ever he has a different lifestyle/image/personality that allows what he does to work

if you view every post simply as an opinion rather then ''advice'' or the ''right way to do it'' or ''concrete fact'', then you will find no one is nessicarily wrong or right, just trying to give help from their own perspective (and occassionally some troll for what ever reason and help is not their intent, simply ignore these people, trolls only get stronger if you feed them)