| I was excited reading the first 2 pages, there was progress, but when you reached a stage where u became in the position of a needy boy who wants sex from a girl who won't give it to him i just went sad mode... and she knows it very damn well; fuck man... honestly, i am happy she went away for 4 months, I'll tell you why below.
I live in a full Muslim community, the majority of girls here are virgins, and have the same mindset of "No sex before marriage".
I was forced to adapt and create my own techniques, and sometimes i get lucky by finding a non-virgin, seriously, i get super excited when i meet one, it's like a free lay.
I can't give you specific advise to your situation, but I'll just lay out the general formula, i am sure you will find it helpful, even in your situation.
Here are some rules to follow when it comes to sex with religious girls who are too afraid to lose their virginity.
- First 2 dates, you don't mention or hint anything sexual, be that fucking white knight, turn the profanity filter on, those are the dates that you plan, after that you disappear from the face of earth for 1 week, i can't stress this enough, seriously, just fucking disappear, turn off your phone, and then re-initiate contact and if she asks where u disappeared you just tell her you were insanely busy with work and broke your phone or whatever.
- This is where she starts showing you that she likes you, you can turn the "profanity filter" off, which means to hint mild sexual things playfully, verbally and physically, see how she reacts to it, however, don't over do it, be nice and occasionally throw in something, like touching her hands, her knees, etc. and playfully reacting to it, like taking your hand of and saying "oops".
Verbally thru Texting on various things, ie: if she tells you her knee hurts, you tell her "Maybe if i kiss it that pain will disappear" playfully.
- Don't show her you need sex, but more like it's your playful nature of being sexual.
- Have a mega strong frame when hinting sexual things, I've been called many names trying shit out, never take it seriously, laugh at it.
- Be super dominant, which means, you don't take shit at all, show her you are ready to leave any given moment if she treats you bad in any way, this includes bad drama by the way.
- Maintain the "Badboy" Frame.
Things to never DO:
1- Do not call her, make sure she's the one texting and calling, txt or call her once a week if you really want to.
2- move a step forward every time she does 2 towards you, and 2 back every time she does 1 back.
Now after 2-3 dates, you have to put her in a mental frame that she can lose you any damn moment if she acts bad, how do you do this? easy.
- If she nags, (She will nag because you're maintaining that frame of not showing her your attention much) you tell her you don't have time for this, and freeze her out.
- If she does anything that pisses you off, you freeze her out.
basically, just show her you don't have time for "shit".
now this is where things get fun, 2 things might happen:
* Things are still normal, next time you bring her home, you escalate normally (Read the Vin Di Carlo escalation Ladder), let her grab you dick, show her how to stroke it, etc.
you have just to be super patient with her, anytime u encounter any kind of resistance, you take 1 step backwards, and try again, be persistent, if she says NO more than 2 times, you simply freeze her out, she will re-initiate on her own, first day you make her do a hand job, and make she blows your load off, you might not be able to to even touch her pum pum on day one.
next lay day, you tell her to kiss your dick playfully, just put it in front of her face after some foreplay, chances that she will suck it are pretty low, so go back to hand job, and pussy rubbing.
after the second "lay day" you have to establish a "i love you too" frame with the girl, which means you're in a relationship now, she loves you and so do you, sorry, religious virgin chicks won't let you get close to their pussy if you're not in a relationship and u don't show her that u love her yet.
keep escalating like that and by the 4th-5th time you're going to be eating that pussy like a champ.
* The Easy mode, she breaks and starts telling you how much she wants to suck your cock (this actually happens when you're about to leave her after she starts some drama about you not showing her much attention) which also happens because you did a great job showing her that you are a very sexual person because of playful sexual hinting mentioned above.
When this happens you have instant sex.
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Now why i am happy that she left for 4 months? because i hope it will be enough time where you can restart the whole mentality of your relationship with her, you created a relationship and a "love" frame before even getting satisfaction from sexual things, which showed unconsciously that it's ok that i am not giving him sex, he still loves me!
Dry humping and kissing is not really satisfying, you have to make her blow your load off, as i said, day one she does a hand job, that shows her that you're already satisfied, and you're not needy to a specific thing like going right to her pum pum, you just take things slowly.
Best of luck man, go fuck other chicks until she's back, then u can love her for real.
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