Hi guys, first of all this happened at the club, and I'm a security guy/bouncer. I had just been assaulted by the husband of a girl who had made out with me lol so I did not want to risk causing more trouble.

I saw a stunning blonde on the dancefloor and made eye contact with her, she maintained it and was sending all the IOI's I would usually need just to walk up to her and kiss her right of the bat. But the BF was here with a couple guy friends.

I thought about opening with "HEY HOW HAVE YOU BEEN?" as Gambler advocates to disarm the obstacles but the music is really way too loud. So we just held hands on the dancefloor and nothing happened.

I hope she comes back on her own. Have you got suggestions for a similar situation guys? My goal was to get the number or to kiss her in an isolated area(tough). Like I said "How have you been?" could have worked but only in a quiet environment and within the first few seconds only.

Also I would like to quickly bring back my "sarging as a bouncer" discussion. I have a lot of success with this, I dont have the time to throw routines and to be indirect so I just make eye contact and kino aggressively as soon as I receive an IOI and I can make out with a lot of girls this way and I fucked one, in about three weekends.
I have not made a direct cold approach without prior IOI's and I should experiment with this but it takes some balls I still havent got forcing IOI's is so much easier and works decently so far, but I want to improve the quality of the girls I make out with they were all decent but I need to go for the 10's, this is what we do.


edit: I also thought about opening the guys but it's tough on a dancefloor.

you can just use your index finger and make a gesture "come here". in situations like you have described it should work. just try to avoid bf seeing you. lol.

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Yeah, I agree, with Defy.
This girl is probably attracted to you (partly) because you have a lot of authority as a security guard and is the nr. 1 alpha in the club.
Gesturing her over like that works well with the whole authority thing you have going on.

I have some friends who work as security guards at clubs. They say that a lot of girls get turned on by this. I'm thinking of working part time as security myself, even though I earn literally four times as much at my day job.

Do it man even if your day job is financially rewarding this is like being paid to sarge. Going out outside of my job will frustrate me if i dont score. At least i walk home with some cash if my time on the field sucked, not the other way aroynd

If you love your day game and you are highly payed, there is no need for working as a bouncer just to get girls. It's stupid actually. You can try for the experience though.

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Day game is Time-consuming and nowhere near as rewarding if getting laid us your goal.

what i meant to say is day job, not day game. lol.

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I tend to disagree with this.

My thought exactly!

I just haven't gotten around to getting a security job yet. I work long hours at the office and work out six days a week, so it's only going to be every second Friday or something like that.

Also, I'm getting interest from three to five new girls a week right now, so I'm on a bit of a roll. That has made me rest on my laurels, so to speak.
By interest, I mean girls who are writing me on facebook saying they want to get to know me/date me, give me their phone number etc.

Today I have three girls who want to meet. Two of them are new girls that I haven't dated before. One of them has worked as some sort of model (modeling naughty underwear for sex shops etc.). We are going to hook up for a standard "coffee and a movie date".
Yeah, I know a movie isn't supposed to be a good idea, but I haven't seen a good movie in ages, and I know this girl is a bit of a "movie geek" so I think I can build some comfort that way. My plan is to suggest that the nest date is a movie date at home with some good food and snuggling in the sofa.

Wish me luck!