Okay edit my post and give the credit to the LINK?

I wrote a long ass blog (5 total blogs really) on attraction, it's actually pretty simple here it is http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... roduction/

However I'd highly recommend watching The Science of Sex Appeal over reading that, though they both include similar info, and though I have a few of my own additional thoughts.

I will put it to you like this though, her attraction to you directly relates to how good you make her feel. This is why a woman dates the asshole who makes her laugh. A good sense of humor is the best thing a man can have as a trait. Making a woman smile is a special power, enjoy using it, it is your biggest attraction tool.

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Actually I think all 3 of these can get women pretty easily.

Truth is any dude of any flavor can get chicks. Nice guy, Douchebag, Fat guy, Short Guy, Dork, Idiot. The core thing is that he's got to be an unwaveringly confident and funny MAN.

That's it.

Being a good cook is actually pretty sexy. Its something thats so easy to achieve with a bit of practice that is really worth doing. Taking a girl home and cooking her a fantastic meal is obviously much better than ordering pizza. Wouldnt say it is one of the top ten attractive features in a man though.

I don't believe that nice guys will get laid.. Ive tried to be the nice guy.. after a year in highschool with the status "Nice Guy" didn't get me anywhere..

Badboy style is the best style to have when you enter a school. Girls find it attractive because they don't know what is going to happend next.. Badboys aren't shamed. And thats a big bonus when we're taking about being attractive.

LOL Nice guys don't get laid? You are ignorant my friend, I'm a nice guy and I do alright.

Confidence and escalation skills is all you need to get laid(though other tools help you with more regularity). If you are a nice guy but a sexual guy you can still work it out I promise.

Confidence and your own personal individuality is the best style to have. Your body language should speak confidence. Nice guys aren't always ashamed, you have a lot to learn about game man. You are stealing other peoples work, you are blind to what is attractive, and you are blind to how to get through the courtship process. There are many different ways you can get through the courtship process, there are many ways you can be attractive for a woman.

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"The Typical nice guy" generally do not get laid, is not that you will be a bad boy or a dick or a jerk off, is just that you will not engage in the typical nice guy behavior, of being needy and accommodating...Here is women on nice guys:

http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/ ... guys.shtml

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Well eh, you just gotta be confident in yourself and totally unafraid of rejection and that confidence will project naturally, that's the key.

No bad boy stuff necessary. If you're naturally a bad boy or jerk personality,run with it, but if you're not, don't force it because you'll come off as trying too hard.

Skills, I agree that most nice guys don't get laid but most guys in general don't get laid. Most men are bad with women. The same percentage of nice guys is bad with girls as any other type from the bad boy, to the wealthy guy, to the poor guy, the larger percentage of the population just aren't good with women. Most guys lack confidence, so it's wrong to say nice guys are bad with women, most guys are bad that is how it goes. The seduction community is forever growing because most men just aren't good with women.

They said all that about nice guys but they weren't referring to them they were referring guys without confidence in general, insecurities, don't go after what they want, etc. I mean I read that article and all I got was they lack confidence.

This goes back to being confident as I stated. I've met some guys that were douches that were good with girls, I've met cool guys that were good with girls, I've met nice guys that were good with women, I've met quiet guys good with women, I've met loud guys good with women. They all have one common factor confidence. Confidence is the key, it shows through your presence. You have a confident presence skills, in your writing and I'd bet money in person.

It's not bad to be a nice guy, it is bad to lack confidence. She said a ton about guys that lack confidence, and yeah some are nice guys but at the end of the day a woman wants a MAN with CONFIDENCE. He can have all these other traits, and they help but she wants a Man with Confidence, this can be a Nice Guy, Asshole, Bad Boy, Quiet Guy, Wealthy Guy, Poor Guy, Dumb Guy, Smart Guy, well you get the point.
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This, and pretty much any list of this sort are pretty useless...by pretty I mean absolutely.

There are shitton of guys who are attractive to different women. There are girls who like nerds, weirdos, goiths, or otherwise complete morons. What you're trying to do is find list of personality traits that attract highest percentage of women and duplicate it.

If you're looking for those, I'd suggest choosing ones that work, but don't compromise your values/sense of self/moral code.

My point is.. Nice guys who are with girls, are people who are her girlfriend with a penis.. They aren't sexual at all. When I say that badboys are more attractive then I meant that they are open sexually more than nice guys..

I know plenty of nice guys who never touch girls because they feel that the girl will be mad if they do it. But I see badboys touching the girls everywhere, and the girls likes them for that.

In my opinion, then girls doesn't like nice guys.

I do agree that there are ways of being a nice guy. If we are talking about giving the girl respect tell her shes beautiful and such. Then the badboy style will have that "nice guy style" in him.

But what I mean is that nice guys aren't sexually they're just a girls girlfriend with a penis. Do never get into the friendzone with girls, always be touchy with all. If you get mistanked by being a player. Then your not a true player. I am sure this has been as enlightening for you to read as it has been stimulating for me to type.

Hey Playa93, I'm going to guess that 93 is your birth year, which means in general your experience is limited to high school +1 year of freedom outside of high school.

It sounds like you're thinking along the high school lines of what nice guys and jerks are, but as you go out more and more, you'll find all those things that happened in high school are fucking meaningless.

The truth of being a PUA, is that you be yourself, but be yourself with confidence, humor, and zero fear of loss. And yes use PUA tricks, but remember, they're only tools, and to be used only as is natural for any given situation.

There are lots of different personality types in this forum who are grand at getting women, douchebags, geeks, confident nice guys, latin suave guys who can dance, whatever. It doesn't matter their personality type, what matters is that everyone here who's gotten good has just learned seduction through lots and lots of practice and frankly that's the only thing that works if you're starting from AFC.

So eh, yeah, be yourself, and just be out in the field as often as you can. It gets natural after a while.

LOL Enlightening for me to read? Are you kidding? Why would I listen to you? I've read more about courtship, attraction, and pick up as well as more experience, then some kid who has to plagiarize to look as though he knows shit. Stop spreading bad info dude. You are coming on here with little experience, after reading a couple things around the internet and talking as if you know something. YOU HAVE A LOT TO LEARN. When someone with more experience and knowledge pops over to teach you something listen up. A wise man learns from his own mistakes a wiser man learns from the mistakes of others.

You seem to keep missing what I say:
How do you miss that?

Read my last post to Skills, it helps illustrate my point further.

Unless you consider the Nice Guy anyone who doesn't make sexual advance, in which case you consider 90% of men nice guys then, I guess I could see your point. I am considered a nice guy by all my female friend's opinions and I am a very sexual guy, there is tons of sexual tension between me and some of my female friends. In fact even though I'm a nice guy all my female friends expect me to get tons of women, how do you explain that?

GETTING WOMEN HAS EVERYTHING TO DO WITH YOUR CONFIDENCE AND YOU PROVING YOURSELF AS A SEXUAL MATE.

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the problem with a lot of you guys is that you guys get into discussions, and fights when you guys( this is the main problem with this forum) are basically saying pretty much the same thing...


The typical nice guys, is a guy that generally lack ABUNDANCE OF WOMEN, he is pretty much super exited that he is dating or has a gf, he usually settles with the first thing that comes along, or sometimes he becomes very needy and accommodating and usually he does not have boundaries and speak up... I posted the link that pretty much explain what nice guys behavior is like...(pretty much most of them lack a lot of confidence and are very insecure)

The myth is that most guys that are good with women are some jerk off or bad boys, is not like that either, but some bad boys vs typical nice guy, probably the bad boy may have some more success...

Most guys that are good with women while they are nice persons inside, they do not engage in typical supplicating, accommodating, ass kissing behavior, and they are no scare to speak up their mind, are confidence and have BOUNDARIES...


Here is a very confident nice guy vs a natural bad boy:


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wpzpJ1Psb6M[/youtube]

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