Guys here that call girl's sluts do so primary for two reasons they are upset with said female (ie things didn't work out), or they think it is cool to call them sluts as they think PUA is all about viewing females as meat.

Gentlemen....

I want to revisit this thread....


Newbs.... Read this and watch what happened...

A chick who's been blasted by a PUA, or knows someone who was blasted by one came here on a major rage to simply vent and call people out.

MOST men jump and attack back...

The mPUA doesn't. The mPUA takes the information she's giving, extrapolates that which fits his point of view, and engages in civilized debate... End result - she's diffused, laughing and quelled - and no longer an adversary. I changed her frame. She was uber-angry, and ended with laughter and compliance. I went from being the enemy to "OMG - PM sent".... which was my GOAL from the onset (ask around, I made it known).

Seriously, it's not magic - it's human dynamics. If you understand her mindset, you can alter her percetion. Her perception is her reality. Embrace that and what she's giving; set your goal and do not be dissuaded.... Then, you'll make more advances that you've ever thought possible.

There were a multitude of people here. All wanting to engage with her, or throwing out some barbs. I tried to play it differently -- -- I targeted her with purpose, blocked any outside influence beyond my control, and planned my progression...the it was game on.




RR

Note: When chicks say "Wow, how did you do that?" "Wow, it's like you see inside of me!" I simply respond with "I'm a people-whisperer Darlin, that's all...". I don't accept the compliments, I deflect them with humor.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I'd like to add my voice to this, so you get a rundown from a female perspective.

Firstly, neither I nor my friends were blasted by a PUA. We were simply revolted by the site. So while I was pissed off at it, it was nothing personal.

The mPUA showed a better game because he didn't resort to insults, condescension or bad manners.

The "OMG - PM sent" was for two reasons:

1 - the mPUA had already PM'd me
2 - he'd accidentally used something in his post that involved my nickname, which amused/horrified me

As for responding to PM's ... I'm a woman, I can't help but answer back (joke)

I knew I was being played the moment RR said "When you lower your bitch shield, you're actually pretty cool." That was a deliberate attempt to get on my good side. I even pointed it out to my friends - and I was interested to see how he'd play it. And I gotta tell you guys, he's pretty good. Hint: sending me photos of your muscular torso wasn't a good move, made me conscious of being added to the 'play' list. A woman likes to feel she's scored a guy who has a bit more to offer.

RR wasn't the only one to PM me. Good try, guys. Two of you got as far as my 'fake for strangers' email. To others, it was pretty clumsy asking to add me to Facebook. Especially when I deliberately ignored your first request.

Here's a tip for you, which RR made good use of: don't make the woman the enemy even if she initially presents as one. Have good manners, don't be rude or she'll just want to smack your arse and make you stand in the naughty corner. If she comes in with guns blazing, she may or may not have a point, but if you want to score with her, you should try to see a situation from her point of view.

Happy Hunting.

Seems like some manipulation on your part Scarlet. Fake emails, playing along while being played, this is in essence a form of manipulation (for self amusement)

Ironic! Don't you think?

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Hey, RR brought the game to me. He took first base, sneaked second, stole third, and now you're pissed that I brought it home?

Scarlet, then for the record, this was an exercise for both parties.

There was no intent to 'pick up'. This was a mental exercise. You're on the other side of the world... The intent was made clear in your post - you noticed.

Well played.... see? Everyone plays games...

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Yep. If you'd been in my country, I wouldn't have spoken to you. We both know that.

Like I just said, the fact that you started the game doesn't mean I can't join it and finish it.

Why would I be pissed? I was merely making an observation.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.