hello guys,

whenever i go out with some friends to a bar or club theres one friend (whose really good with women) whose determined to "find me a bird." however every woman he introduces me to is an absolute minger and when i do not show any interest in her he starts thinking i am gay.

what would you think if this happened to you??

(btw, a minger is an english word that means unattractive person).

Pro tip: Don't rely on your uneducated friends to help you meet girls. They usually just end up holding you back. Theyll only try to shame if you arent happy with just any girl they try to introduce you to.

thank you!!

i remember last time it happened was a couple of weeks ago when i turned up two hours late and first thing he said was "i have fixed you up with a bird. shes gorgeous!!" but it turned out she was over 40, had three kids and looked like a bloke. nice enough to talk to however i would only regard ladies of her description as a nice friend.

maybe i should go out with someone else?? or on my own?

anyway, this is me ..........

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Just entertain your friends to placate them. I have the same problem. My friend's girlfriend tried to fix me up with her cousin who was, if I had to rate her which I hate doing, a 7/8 from the pictures I saw on facebook but then when I met her in real life she was less than average lets just say. My friend's girlfriend tried to say I was an asshole for not wanting her because of her looks but who really cares? There will always be more girls.

Bottom line: Fuck your friends. They'll only hold you back when it comes girls.

Going out on your own is not a bad idea. Or at least find some friends who aren't asshats if you dont like a girl.