Im sittin at work on a saturday night and get a text from a chick who i havent talked to in years(and have a huge crush on).Shes asks to hang with her and a few friends at a local bar,its just the 4 of us.Of course im down.Seems like were having a great time all night but nothing special happens not even a k close.She even brings up hanging out again and shes all for it.Now for the problem.I texted her for the first time today since we hung out.

Me: When are you comin back into town.we need to chill again.
Her: this weekend
me: sweet lemme kno if your trying to do something if your not too busy for me lol
Her: lol okay ill most lilkely be around sat night
me: alright we should try to find that band again (awful band we made fun of all night)

I get no response.Anything i do wrong here? I dont think she seems interested from the way she texts but maybe its just my text game idk.Am i just acting retarded? Also any ideas for escalating with her for this saturday/ I feel as if i dont get a k close i should give up HELP PLEASE!!

Why not be more direct and affirmative instead of pussy-footing around?

"K listen up, Sat night I'm taking you somewhere that'll blow your mind!"

Offer mystery, a sense of excitement...a break in the monotony that is life. People want to be drawn into temptation, to be seduced. Give her something to look forward to, something to ponder.

You're being friend zoned. You didn't kiss her that night, I'm guessing you didn't really escalate, you just did exactly what you would have done had she been a guy.

agentprovocateur gave some food advice, be assertive, and when you go out, dance with her, be flirty, play with her hair, kiss close her.

Yea, the fact that she the isn't getting physical usually means friend zone crap. Now... I understand that this is all on you, that you are the one who has / had a crush on her and its hard to just forget. That is why we are telling you this because it is easy for us and we come from an emotionally uninvolved 3rd party, but also it is the right thing to do. Ignore her. Blow her off. Make plans, set a date, make her agree to come, and don't call her, don't even show up. Don't answer any, ANY of her messages. I am saying this to you because we are going to nip this in the bud NOW. If she desired you sexually, she would have made it known, and if she shit tests you by saying "I like you and you didn't do anything" in any way, tell her to go F*K a goat because even bees can communicate their intentions better than her. At least by standing her up you can come out on top of this even and feel like a man. For I care, she wasted your time. She plagued your mind by texting you on a friggin Saturday which is not fair at all to you. That whole "if you're not too busy for me" line was total chompski-honk. Of course she's not too busy for you, YOU are the effing man, you are awesome, and you are the gee dee prize. You're barely scraping time off your awesome schedule just to even bless her with your attention and never forget that.

After your down shooting her down, let me know how it goes.

thanks for the advice boys,ill let you know how it plays out.

Texts me today
Her:sorry i missed your last text
Her:what do you think we should do? few hours later
Her:???

So whats the gameplan after this?

Lol this is why I said ignore all her texts, because now you feel compelled to respond. Well, what is YOUR gameplan? Do you really want her?

You were doing it wrong from the onset.

Most of the time.....If she knows YOU give a fuck, she won't.

Remember that.

Don't sound needy.

RR

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i dunno what the plan is! im usually in the position where girls just fall into my lap which is what happened with my last 3 gfs,ive never really had to work for it so thats why im here.this girl is almost HB9 compared to my usual almost 7 so that why i think i feel pressured.