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When something seems like it will never happen. I have to wonder if I need to change my view on things. My view on sex is messed up, I want to think its wrong or naughty. Mostly its that high school/college thing I missed out on where I picked up that a lot of people were doing it. I have a high school/college mentality view of sex. I have thought of monagamous sex and thought how could that be exciting? To make someone feel good that cares about you for you? I guess its selfish of me that I don't care about that. And monagamy usually means the right one and what if the right one isnt attractive to me. What if the right one is even being kept from me because I'm shallow? Also, I feel its wrong to just be relegated To one person the rest of your life. I mean, where's the fun or badness in that?
The key is to get it out of your system till you are 28-32 before that, you probably not ready...Or to have one main gf, and maybe another girl on the side or 2..
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When I hear about why guys have sex, I hear the trite "it feels good, its awesome" yet I'm thinking the real reason is because they want to be a man and boss women around in addition to that. Idk, this is my view of casual sex. And its also my view on sex. Love at 30 isnt like love in your teens, where love can be naughty or dirty then, because puppy love or whatever is looked upon as a cool clique thing. AT 30, love is almost like a lifelong relationship. Noone is going to say how cool it is, nor is it going to feel so dirty when you start saying "I love you."
The problem, your deep problem is that unfortunately you do not get girls, i can tell...Therefore, you don't know what you are talking about..
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Back to topic on hand, if I changed my view on sex. then I would have to go for love rather than lust and might as well be a Christian, since I don't believe Christianity and lust can go together and I will never act on that combination. Sometimes, I wonder if the luck I'm having in life is the hand of God and He doesnt want me to be a player. I don't want to get all religious here but the truth is the biggest separation from it is casual sex. And do I want someone else controlling my life? No, I don't! I wonder if I became a athiest or embraced suffering afterwards and became a satanist would better things happen for me. Would I finally get what I want, maybe?
Get women first, which i can tell you don't, then worry about all your nonesense later, let me explain it to you, the reason must dudes want to learn to be good with women, is for them too have abundance and pick the best women from the best instead of settling with the first thing that comes along, second this forum is more than getting pussy is to improve all aspects of being a man, and one of those the right skills to get women, with that being said i have a problem because unfortunately the community does not teach how to keep women...Instead of worrying about all this nonesense go out and get girls, then worry...
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