Hi guys, all is in the title!

I didn't find this topic on this forum yet.

How to Pick Up Bartenders???

There is a video on Youtube of Mystery talking about this. I know, from reading through the forums, his techniques aren't loved by all (and having never tried them I don't know) but he talkes about getting her to notice you. Something called Flash Theory (how many theories are involved in this game? lol).

Basically you need to show that you are a fun, together guy and she will notice you. Get her interested that way, from a distance. From what I took from the video that is the first step.

Then, I gather, its actually getting to speak to her but the time frames will be short so you would need to work pretty quick I'd guess.

I'm sure others could help you more - but I actually saw the video last night and it was fresh in my mind so I thought I'd post this. I'm sure it was a clip from The Pick Up Artist (the show he did for VH1).

Yeah Flash Effect + DHV?

I think that would be your starting point.

From there, transitioning to talking to her and cranking up the escalation, not really sure lol.

But if you have DHV enough, you should already be a few steps ahead, so the escalation when talking to her should be much quicker anyway. I think.

Honestly, I would just hit on her and tell her I'm don't want her fucking drinks. I want her.

realise that a bartender has loads of guys per night trying to hit on her. you have to apply different methods.

Don't be drunk when hitting on her. Order a non-alcoholic drink. I think you should order a drink, don't waste her time.

Engage her, order your drink. Ask her how she is? she'll say good. Reply...even though you're working? this should make her smile. Let her get on with her job.

Come back when she's not busy. Make a statement about her, or your surroundings. I usually point to some drunk guy trying to dance with a girl, or trying to hit on a girl.

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Ok guys, i tried tonight, i got an NumClose...

very nice. a bartender isn't usually an easy target.
Could you share what you did?

In a really big club, "Flash game" doesn't work.

Nice work man!

How did it all go down?

And I can imagine that what CJH is saying is right, if its a big club with lots going on, it will be hard to stand out from that much activity, without going too far.

Does Flash game work well in smaller venues? Have no idea if it even works, I just saw it mentioned on a Youtube vid.

I acted like if i didn't care about her.

I was with my friends, having drinks and good conversations.

After two hours i went at the bar for buy a drink and she came, we spoke a little i made her smile, i asked her name, and went back to my friends.

When we quit the bar, I asked her if she had plans for the rest of the night after work and if she wants to eat something, she didn't wants to eat, so she asked for my number, i took her number first and gave mine after than.

That's it

Sorry for my english