What must a player do to get the respect he deserves?????

Be respectable in all that you do.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Another useless thread by a useless person.

Personal attacks, nonresponsive answers... the kettle is calling the pot black.

I agree with SexAddict, respect others and you'll receive the same.

Lets say you are teasing a girl and she says something disrespectful just because she thinks its funny...

I just usually blow it off with something random or funny that makes fun of the girl, but not in a offensive way;
her: "I only like that you're pretty entertaining"
me: "oh how cute is that "

You just can't show that you're affected by these things; and NEVER respond with disrespect back, it NEVER works and only makes you feel bad later for hurting her feelings (and of course she wouln't go further with a guy who's just disrespectful)
also just generally be the alpha

(also your profile picture, you shouldn't want to deserve her, you should wonder why she should deserve someone as awesome as you)

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To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.

I don't want to be chauvinistic...

The usually feels like compromising myself, because if a regular person disrespected me I would say something mean to them. If a girl does it, it always seems like I wondering am I going to go too far and blow this...

The shit test to me always seemed like a dilemma. The choice between pride and pussy. If you chose pussy you dont get pride and you don't get pussy and if you chose pride you don't get the pussy.

so yeah it just feels like I'm compromising more than I want to...

Responding to a perceived slight by someone with meanness is a sign of insecurity. Meeting their lack of respect with indifference is a far more potent reaction. Doing the same towards a shit test garners the same result.

Understanding the motive behind a shit test and the choice of acting either confident and humble, or being non-reactive has nothing to do with being a "pussy", in fact doing so is the anti-thesis to being a pussy. Your dichotomy of pride vs. pussy therefore makes little sense.

I don't think that way... "is she good enough for me?" I usually think when I see a hot girl that "she should be mine." Although I guess they, girls, do think that...am I good enough? Qualification usually is not part of my game. I can see it in girls alot of times and it kinda makes me mad in the fact that I will accept them trying to qualify themsevles to me, but if I try to qualify myself to them....crash and burn.

Dude, why are you even responding to me? This is like the 5th you have said something ignorant to me. Stop trolling.

1. Its not about insecurity, its about respect and an honor. You don't let insults go whether they hurt you or not. You make that person pay a cost for their behavior so they are timid about doing it again...

2. It makes perfect sense when you see taking shit not as humility but as being a bitch.

People who are led by their egos and feel the need to reap revenge are extremely week. You're either 1) too young and immature to understand that, or 2) socially retarded. My guess is a little bit of both.

Its not revenge, its accountability. Accountability, you've heard of it right?...

Immature, socially retared? Son, let me teach you something. A man is nothing without respect...nothing. Respect is the most valuable thing on earth. Respect is more valuable then friends, its more valuable than pussy, its more valuable than life itself. Respect is more valuable than life itself; maybe you've heard the saying "death before dishonor."