Hi guys, this is kind of a continuation of an earlier thread I posted...

Last weekend I went out with a girl and her mates but towards the end of the night it was just me and her. She was isolated and we were getting on great, lot's of kino, touching, eye contact etc.

However, she knows lots of people and because she is hot guys want to talk to her. Everytime she spoke to another guy, I started to talk to another girl. I thought this was pretty standard tit for tat. Anyways, this happened a few times and then she vanished.

Anyway, I go home alone, which sucked and decided to contact her the following day.

I asked her why she left me and she told me I left her! This is completely not true because I was at the bar/club thingy till closing time and she was nowhere to be seen.

She called me a big meany for leaving her which actually sounded pretty cool so I asked her for a second date and she said yes!

However, now she is ignoring my texts, I have sent her 3 messages now, including a build up to a day 2 and she has ignored all 3!

I thought, maybe she's busy etc, chill. Then she posts some shit on facebook about her ex and his new partner spreading lies about her. I ask if she's ok? Nothing, not a peep.

Then I messaged her saying that: you obviously have too many problems in your life right now so let me know if and when you sort them out.

I think I have come across as mega needy and failed.

What do you guys think? Is there anything I can do to salvage this?

It also might be worth mentioning that I met her brother, her best friend and her bro's GF and got on with them all really well. Have spoken to them on facebook and they were cool with me so I have got a good rapport with her peer group.

Is that a good or bad thing?

Anyone? I know my best bet is to freeze her out but if anyone has a suggestion to get a response from her, it would be greatly appreciated.

What is wrong with you ? why are you chasing her so bad..dont text or talk to her unti l SHE makes the effort. The ball, or sorry...the balls are in her court now..dont be needy..make her wait.

Meantime, read robert greene the art of seduction

dont thank me

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So how R u feeling right now?

Well I doubt she is so busy, she cant take a minute to answer your msg,,,
so, maybe switch to another target, and game another girl,,,this way if this one decides to come back,,,good for you.

If not, well then atleast you have been gaming anoither girl then, and you are not at loss.

Just remember, if she doesnt respond , its her loss .

And yeah, you started to be a little needy at one point, but its fine, learn from your mistakes.

Hope I helped.

Cheers.

Thanks guys, I will read that Rob Greene book. I know I am feeling a little one-itis and it sucks. I haven't felt this way for years, I hate it. I was in a relationship and life is easy in those circumstances but now I'm single, it's easy to feal worthless.

I am looking up that book right now and hot women are a dime a dozen. I know this but it's easy to forget it.#


Thanks again.