Went out Friday night and am just getting around to texting the girls that gave me their numbers. 2 stopped responding. Give me some tips on how I screwed up and how to initiate the next texts.

I know my text game sucks. Give me some tips on how I can work these over and improve in the furure.

Girl #1

Me: I think I just met your twin.

Her: Who is this?

Me: The badass from macdiltons on friday night. I also go by 'Ryan', as well.

I talked to you by the entrence, I was the one your friend hated.

Her: lol.. I remember you, didn't know the #

Me: So what are you up to on this blessed Sunday night?

No respnse

Girl #2

Me: I think I just met your twin.

Her: lol really?

Me: For serious. You're Native American, right?

Her: Who is this btw? lol and no lol

Me: Ryan, from Friday night.

We once endured an entire semester of Mr. Bell's under-the-table chicken choken sessions and you've already forgotten about me?

note: I met this girl in line at a club, after a few minutes of talking we realized we both knew each other from back in middle school. We had a "Mr. Bell's" class together and he was well known for jackin' it under his desk during class. Sick, I know, but true.

Her: Oh hey lol sorry I guess I never saved your number!

Me: Apparently I'm not worthy of making it into your contact list.

So what are you up to on this blessed sunday night?

Her: Haha no you are, friday was just a busy night lol, just hanging out with my sisters what about you?

Me: Studying.

So what did you do after graduating from ___ _____? Did you go to school or start working?

No response.

Thanks!

if you are getting, ''who is this?'' on a regular basis, chances are you are fucking up in person, it is either a lack of interest on their part, or more likely a lack of an emotional connection,

is it possible for you to list off a few interesting things about each of these girls?, what can you remember about them besides how they looked?, can you recall their names by memory?, do you know much about them as people?, what sort of lives they have lived?, what type of music they like?

try to get a solid connection in, get into that rapport deep with them, learn about what they are like, what sort of person they are, what they like, what they don't like, exchange some stories of things you both share in common, get deep, if she is hesitant to connect then you give some of yourself away so she can become comfortable enough to open up without feeling judged, just don't turn into an open book and give give give, without getting any investment, pay attention to how much interest you are getting, the investment is important, if the person you are talking to is unwilling to invest/connect then chances are your efforts are a waste of time, you might as well just have fun with them and expect nothing will likely come of anything without more time and trust

In all fairness, I never put my number in their phones and only talked to one girl for more than a few minutes. I'm a n00b and was just tyring to play the numbers game to get experience. 8 numbers in one night isn't too bad all considered.

I really don't know much about any of them. I screwed up and never put their names in my phone, I just called them. I only know the name for one of the girls, I was doing good just to remember the order I got them in and assigning faces to them.

Thanks for the advice though, I'll definitely take it into consideration.

Just some thoughts. Everyone texts differently, and some of this stuff may work for some people. It would not work well for me if I said any of the following:
"The badass from macdiltons on friday night" sounds weird to me. It sounds like you're trying to impress her or something. I would have just said "the guy your friend hated".

"Apparently I'm not worthy of making it into your contact list. " Sounds like you almost DQ yourself.

"So what did you do after graduating from ___ _____? Did you go to school or start working? " Don't have a personal conversation via text when you barely know her. Until things get really serious, keep the messages short, fun, and interesting. Google search "girlschase". They have some good stuff. You'll get better; good luck.

Good points, thanks!

Also, just to add something else. I'm rarely serious in person, my text messages match how I act and what I would say in person.

I feel like taking a more serious role when texting that doesn't match my real life personia would work against me a bit. Just wanted to throw that out there.

I'm currently skimming through the text portion of the 'girlchase' website given above. Overall it looks like a good source.

Everyone who has posted so far is spot on... so reread their posts.. nice job boys.

Now the opener u used is flawless. Iv used it w almost every girl i text.... so good choice in opener. I actually love how u said " your native american right?" -- thats funny.... if shes a cool chick and down to earth she eat that shit up. A+ work on that1.

Now as far is seeing these girls again im not sure how that going to go... you havnt built enough attraction to where they are going to want to hang out w you 1 on 1 or w your group ( at least that what its looking like via their text responses.. esp the 1st girl). How to fix this? Good question.. If you randomly bump into them make sure u build attraction to the max... so when u hit her up she not like ummm who is this.

Once you got that however try to stay away from ASKING QUESTIONS when texting girls... it implys that your "After something" or you want to text them aka needy which isnt good. Also KEEP your texts SHORT! it will again imply you're not over committed to this girl... and it will make her want to CHASE U. She will be thinking "why is he being short w me?? doesnt he like me? Is he talking to other girls???" -- girls are SUPER insecure.... everyone of them... and they get super jealous of each other... the more u can play off that the better i think.... until your in a relationship.

WOW that was more then i wanted to write.... but if u have any more TEXT question help I have a few text reutines that are pure GOLD to help build some attraction.

GL!
Duke

you guys are overcompensating it. what Pump said is all there is to it, you are getting numbers fast instead of building enough attraction for an emotional connection in which she would want to see you again.
everyone goes through this stage, sooner or later, you will stop getting a lot of flaky numbers from marginal prospects and start getting a few solid ones to go with your SNL's.