Sex does absolutely nothing for confidence. It only affects those who were extremely outcome dependent on it (i.e. men like you). You feel you are missing out because others are doing it (others are also doing ecstasy but hey..) but in any case it makes you needy and you start setting out on a mission equivalently as bad as some of the over-hyped most films of Hollywood: Superbad, and any other film where 'sex is a mission'

It's retarded. If you think sex is going to give you the confidence you need...then you already made up your mind. For me when I was younger, sex was just good fun. That's all. I didn't need it to "make me think I could get women."

That's just retarded mental thought at best. Fact is AFCs get lucky all the time, and moreover I'm the one helping them even though they had sex. They were all needy little bastards at one point.

Sex is overrated.

This. To be honest, you think you'll totally change after it, and a lot of virgins act like it's the most important thing in the world, but it's overrated, and when I lost mine I actually wondered why I had been so excited about it in the first place. Of course it feels great, but it can get a bit boring.