RR please allow me to state the obvious

Like most guys with good game he does both. How are they mutually exclusive? A PUA always has his eyes open for opportunity. In my experience the grocery store offers some damn fertile happy hunting grounds.

Fucking incredible! More excuses!

YEs, I go to the grovery store to buy my daily meal - AND because it's MY best sarge. I've honed the direct approach. I've adapted it to use with a tool. I've insta-dated directly from the grocery store to a nearby restaurant then my my place! I've pulled two numbers from two different women within 10 minutes of one another int he grocery store...

THINK - Their ASD isn't too high, they're BUSY! If you can get the IOIs, continuous eye-contact for 3-seconds...then you make your move IMMEDIATELY. Open, engage in small talk, and folow her lead. Her body/voice will tell you where the conversation is going.

Dude, you've thumbed your nose or made excuses at everything.... fuck it - do it your way. The PUAs will fuck the chicks that turn you down. Rock on with your bad self!

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

ASD?

I get this everyday, doesnt matter the venue... school, the train, the market, the gym... should I act on them all? Sounds like you would

Personally I love approaching girls at the gym. Their in their zone, their endorphins are high as shit and their always in a good mood.

I just started ACTUALLY approaching girls a month ago and the gym is awesome. I usually go up make some comment about other people or anything really. For example, "Hey tell me that girl doesnt look like a penguin over there" or "Damn looks like someones getting jacked!" the opener really doesnt matter. Then i say "your actually kinda friendly...you can be my workout buddy for the day" then chat..lift and do your thing.

On a different note, i agree with RetiredRodeo...this shit isnt easy to learn. It takes a lot of practice and excuses arent helping yourself progress. I used to constantly make excuses for why i didnt approach or why she wasn't into me. Until i started thinking HOW and WHEN i was gonna change that did i actually see improvements and results. Anyways good luck and make sure you atleast try it out for yourself.

Think everyone needs to.... BREATHE....
This guys clearly not got experience in it so everyone stop being so alpha male trying to show off about how many girls they pull outside the gym or grocery store or whatever and encourage or advise.
Supra you really need to take responsibility and know that you did bad but its easily remidiable as someone else said, you can now say 'hiya maria' if you see her in the gym and pump weights for a few days then open a convo one day. Try to build some comfort. Smile at her wink at her whatever. Also next time you gotta go direct or indirect opening, none of this in the middle rubbish. Either a mystery type question i.e. who lies more or whatever. Or direct; hey, saw you working out, needed to come over and say hi, you were so enticing or whatever...
Just learn from this bro that you need to take responsibility, have a more confident open, and you can still turn this around easily.
Peace.

ASD = Anti Slut Defense. Every chick in a bar has ASD. They're programmed to EXPECT to be hit on, and as such won't let you see the 'real' them until you can lower that defense and get them in a more comfortbale/receptive position.

As for would I every time? It depends on MY mental state. Do I want to fuck that day? Sure, I'll make a move. IF I'm busy - I might nod, smile whatever....or leave it alone. If I'm playful - I'll try to number-close no less than 3/day.

It's your life man. I live mine to enjoy it as much as possible. I love interacting with women. It's a high for me.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Wait, this ISNT how it works?

Fuck this, I'm out.

Too much effort.

I used to think this to, but game will work on these boston girls, i am sure about it. i would say ur biggest fault was violating the 3 second rule, and then u kind of stalked her....never follow behind a girl like that, its creapy.....

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