Hi, newbie here.

I met a girl the other night in a club. We danced and kissed and I got here number at the end of the night. How do I proceed from here for just sex? I've been in this position countless times before, but nothing ever goes any further. No dates, just txts and missed calls.

I've sent her a txt, saying how great the night was and we should meet up sometime. Nothing back from her.

Hey man, in my opinion you should refrain from telling her how great the night was, that's a bit needy (no offense)... And texting instead of calling shows a bit of reluctance to really communicate, why not give her a call? Make some plans, don't ask her if she wants to go, just behave as if she agreed already... Ask her to be ready at 9 p.m. for you to pick her up and go to a party... Stop by your place pretending to have forgotten something and ask her to come up, stating clearly that you are just picking something up... This will make her familiar with the location and reduce her hang-ups about going to your place once the night is over... Hope this helps... Bye!

Try one more time. Late on a Thursday night, say "Babe, im drunk and i miss your lips" or some variation on that theme (I don't really do club game so I rarely have this scenario, you can probably come up with something a little better) If she responds, set up a date for that weekend and come on strong sexually. Kiss straight away and go from there.

Sometimes you just need to offer sex.

Thanks, I'll give her a call.

In general what would you guys recommend for a first date with a girl you just want to fuck?

A loud bar or club where you can apply a lot of kino and build st quickly

I second that, make it a loud bar that you are familiar with, where you have DHVs from the staff and patrons, where you can isolate and buid comfort on the way to seduction... Good luck!

I tried calling tonight, but no answer. Not sure what my next move should be. Try calling again tomorrow, send her a message asking her out, or just leaving it...

One thing I forgot to mention... I also have her on my facebook.

I would have left her a sexual voice mail or sent her a sexual text message. Her not answering shows lack of interest, keep that in mind.

Update: Ok so I sent her a message asking if she wanted to go out last Wednesday, she replied with "she's working all week". I Then replied with "How about Saturday? Do you work on the weekend also?".

I've got no reply and it's now Sunday. Do I drop this one? She actually replied with something (although vague), so I don't want to drop her just yet.

Keep her in the loop, but don't block your calendar on account of meeting her... Seems her interest is dropping... Cheer up, there's plenty of fish in the sea, man

I want to try her one last time before I let her go completely.

I was thinking sending her the following message.

Hey, how's things? When are you free, I was thinking we should meetup and hangout.


What do you guys think?