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How many PUA's have gone "heavy kino" with girls who didn't want it? How often has persistence strayed into the territory of something more sinister?
if the girl does not want it then you do not persist, if the dude persist, unless is a shit test, usually the first and the second time(women usually say no about 3 times not to look like sluts) then he does not know what he is doing...
You have a relatively sensible approach to rejection, which is not necessarily shared by the nastier elements of this community.
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The standard pattern of thought of a "college rapist" is that girls rarely slap him and have yet to report him, so that must mean he's perfectly fine.
I went to college for 6 years one a community college and one a university, so i never met, heard or saw any college rapist...
If you're really interested, google "thoughts, attitudes, beliefs of rapists" (or something to that affect) you'd be pretty surprised at how similar the two groups can be. In-fact I'd advice that any member reading this post should do so right now.
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A lot of "escalate and persist" PUAs hold to a mantra that ignores the choices of the women they meet.
That was gunwitch, must pua do the modern version which is 60 yoc or rsd, and if the choice of the women, is no, they go to another girl...
Last I recalled Gunwitch is serving time for walking up to a girl and blasting a hole in her face with .357 magnum. Invoking his name doesn't do you any favours. Regardless not every PUA feels the same way about rejection.
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"if a girl says no she really means yes"
-WTF is that suppose to mean?
Sometimes no is no yet, depends on the situation... Escalation and persistence has nothing to do with rape or anything close to that, nor is something sinister...
Now if you escalate the right way you don't really need to be persistent...
The bold part I totally agree with. But.. ignoring a girl saying no and escalating anyway is at the very least sexual harrasment. Escalation and persistence is how most rapists operate, not through violence in a back alley, you just grab her when you are in a good place and fuck her and don't worry "women love it, she just says no so she doesn't look like a slut".