Hey guys,

Here is the story and I'm going to need some advice on this. About a year ago I was working for a company in Liverpool Street City of London and I'm in the kitchen of the shared office and there's quite a few girls in there and one in particular hot blonder size 8 to 10 and they all work in recruitment. Anyway next day she is In the kitchen on her own so I approach (if you read my post in introduce yourself my game is not the best)

Anyway we got chatting and I got her name and she said add her on LinkedIn as I said we maybe looking to hire people in the area she works in. So I added her and then made then later the following week we shared some emails then I mentioned about meeting up for a drink and she said when shes out in Londonshe'll let me know in a few weeks so basically she wasn't going to let me know and was being polite. A few weeks went by and nothing so I emailed her to see how she was etc and she emailed back then I mentioned the drinks and she went quiet. So I took it as that was that no luck.

Anyway to cut a long story short 6 months after I sent her an email to see how things were with work etc which she replied very friendly and I didnt mention the drinks and left it as a one off which I think worked in my favour as she was probably expecting and drinks close. So then another few months go by and by this time I'd set my own company up and we've been doing really well so I message her to see if she knew anyone looking and whether she fancied meeting up for a catch up and she said she would like to and we arranged a meet up for a coffee at lunch and she sent me her number. So we met for coffee at a bar and explained how my company had gone and she was down about her job and my game was decent in terms of making her laugh but was this business or pleasure?? I'd say the former...

Anyway we then shared a couple of texts over the next month or so and we met up again 3 weeks ago for a drink at lunch and this time it was more personal - she just split up with her long term boyfriend of 3 years a few weeks before and was now in limbo with her life so we got on well chatted not so much about work. Then on Thursday I was out in the city and sent her a text about going out again and she said yeah let's meet at lunch to which I replied (after a few drinks in me) "why do I get the lunchtime slots it's about time I took you out on an evening" she replied "are you drunk? ... Yes book me in " so we texted this week and are going out next Friday after work for drinks.

Where do I go from here? What game do I use? Baring in mind this isn't your usual set and close.... Your help would be appreciated guys.

Hi,

Yea this is not your usual pick up I reccomend this link, be carefull not to information overload on it.

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The reason for that link is the Compliance Ladder, you will need to start off light and apply kino escalation aswell just light kino at first i.e a brief touch of the arm while laughing at a joke things like that. If she is comfortable with that try take her somewhere by the hand. It's a good idea to bounce to some new places as it will create a more lasting impression of the night for her.

Anyway if you can have good conversations with her thats half the work done.

Remember don't read too much of that link in one go. For now compliance ladder and applying some smooth kino is all you need to get an idea of what she wants.

P.S I'm amazed I managed to find that link for you.

Hi

Thanks for going to the trouble of replying and giving me valuable feedback, really appreciate that. Where are you from? Where are you In your PUA life...

I'm from NZ, Somewhere between forum enthusiast and AFC merging into PUA.

My game isn't balanced so thats why I'm still AFC. I don't open big sets, I dont have a very strong day game.