Whoa..!!! What an eventful night it was..!!!

Following Jackal's instructions, I reached the City Centre & I find Jackal chatting up & eventually performing cool kinos on two wonderful girls..!! He was on 56th set..!! I started a bit slow that day as I was not in the zone. However, till we reached Slug's I was on my 10th. I had a fair bit of success. However, I was looking for more. I was clueless on that day. However, I realised the best thing at such times is to be at the bar ordering drinks. This is the place which got me into my zone. Soon a brunette appeared & we got chatting with the kind of purse she had. It got me started. I'd 5 sets opened as punched in by Jackal. Next was to re-engage them, which was a bit difficult as I dint remember their faces properly. However, I did remember two of them & both declined as one was a lesbian & the other just couldnt hear what I was rumbling (need to speak slow!!!).
However, I was told to do the same all over again, this time remembering the color of their eyes alongwith their names or else I would be ousted that night, a challenge laid by Jackal. Jackal's pushing worked & this time around I was more determined. I'd a good success. During my 3rd set I got chatting with two hb7 & I was taken aback with the success I got. Both the hbs were really engaged with me, with whom my earlier buddies were unsuccessful. On reporting back to Jackal, I was instructed to immediately re-engage & get their digits, to which I was unsuccessful as they had boyfriends & were not ready to let out their digits.

Met new PUA buddies SLICK, DOLPHIN & good old NEPTUNE got to know a bit more about the game. Compliments from Slick made me more confident & got me into the zone. On venturing to the next destination Mailbox, I was loosening up, feeling relaxed, opening more sets. Managed to get my 20th set, by two women, one of who was high & almost was trying to play with me sexually..!!! :O
We entered a Bar inside the Mailbox. Here, the SPAM was a bit complex as it was much more sophisticated as compared to the unformal & relaxed Slug. However, did manage to get a few nice close. I was reluctant as this was new to me. However, with more pushing from Jackal I was fairly successful in completing my next 5 sets. This time around I'd got a group of women who were celebrating their friend's job appointment. This was my clue for engaging the entire group & to my surprise I did pretty good & got a number close with my buddies Slick & Neptune by my side.
It was pretty good, as I happy with the digits I managed to get..!!

The night was pretty much done with Jackal closing to somewhere close to 200!!
I was surprised with the thought that with little pushing, few encouraging threats & discipline, how I was doing better.

But I have to do much much better. So looking forward to the next meeting..!!

Till then See ya..!!

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HSK

Its not how many sets you do, its what happens in the set. 5 amazing sets were you number closed and on night game even kissed close is much better than just doing 100000 sets. Also I think you need to establish sticking points, and work on them. Is it your initial voice that sounds weak when first opening cause if so practice to make it sound more strong. Is you body language bad etc etc etc. Opening sets is one thing but you need to make it stick.

The Week Breakdown:

Background:

The major thing for me this week was sarging solo; I felt that though I was very consistent (having good interactions and getting solid number closes) when I went out with wings. I felt I had become far too reliant and dependent on having wings with me usually Jackal or Dragon. Secondly I need to improve my commitment to sets. Therefore to shift things I needed to go out on my own and feel uncomfortable and get a reality check on where my skill set is.

Thursday 3rd May

I started the day strongly as I do everytime I go out by doing some indirect ‘asking for directions’ approaches on my way to the city centre, the guy set I did with the two Asian guys was very good because they helped me to get into a much more chatty vibe and successfully managed to transition the conversation and building some good rapport. I had sure to also involve the other more quiet guy in the conversation, just the same dynamics you would use with a shy girl. From there as usual I made my way to victoria square where I proceeded to walk down new street where I spotted a few sets that were 'Yes's' that I did not approach. As I started I felt I was quiet relaxed not internally jumpy, I did feel the social pressure of having less people on the streets and possibly really standing out if I did my usual Yad Approach and to be honest during the session as I would expect that was the major hiderance. I kept walking arounded around the city centre really relaxed spotted a few more 'yes' sets but did not commit to any.

Just as I was about to walk up new street again I saw this girl who was in green from head to toe and I just opened her with an observational opener 'Hey, what's up with all the green'. The set hooked really quickly and she started to talk about her love for green and what she was doing at uni .etc. When we had talk for a bit I went for the instant date ' let's brag a coffee' she was like i am more a drink kind of person. I got back to the conversation and went for the instant date again ' I am thristy let's grab a drink' she said she had to go home. (To be honest more was possible with this girl however the fact that she was in girl head to toe just put me off pursuing things further. I walked with her for a bit got to know more about her built more rapport, then after about a 10 minute conversation I number closed and we parted ways. At this point the rain had picked up again, I walked up birmingham new street again saw a few more 'yes' sets includung a two set and decided to call it a day.

Lessons:

Gaming in the rain:

• There are a lot less girls (Volume) therefore it is important to make each and 'Yes' every girl count.
• It as arguably easier to go on instant dates and manuvour to same day lays because people want to get out of the rain.
• It is a lot more romantic in the rain.
• Carry your umbrella and get comfortable approaching under your umbrella.
• Be socially intelligent (but do not use this as an excuse not to approach immediately), if a girl is going to walk under some shelter from the rain you might consider approaching her then.
• Do not stand under rain shelter make sure you are walking about and approaching
• Importantly be at one with the rain 'accept it and learnt to love it' all else is avoidance from the reality that is infront of you
• Still do the yad stop of course calibrate to the momentum of the girl
• Also try out the frontal stop

General Game Realisations

• I need to simpify things in field each set is simply a 'Yes' or 'No' set. If its a 'Yes' set to commit to the set and approach
• Yes (1)--->Start Moving (2)-----> Project 'I want to fuck you' (3)
• Even if a 'Yes' set comes along early in the warm up its a yes so I have to approach and go in direct.
• When the girl has hooked and she is talking about her self, back off and let her do the work. Allow silence and pauses to develop.
• Once I am in set is all the same, I am the same individual it makes no difference whether I am out there alone or not.
• With winging and been out with other guys of better skill than me in many ways it is easier as you vibe of their energy and as a consequence you can do a lot of this which you will not have the courage to do on your own. The key really to having solid game is to be able to replicate that which you can do when you are with others when you are on your own. Therefore from here on in challenge your self when you are with wings and work on stabilising those lessons when you are on your own.

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Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life.

Herbert Otto

I am interested in women, however I am invested in learning the skill set.

Friday 4th May

I went out after work solo again I started the day really strong as I usual do by opening a few indirect sets and asking for direction to get into a social chatty state. However I did not get my first approach out of way quickly. I walked down new street and so a lot of 'Yes' sets that i wanted to approach but again because my focus was so external I cared far too much what people would think about me and there was no commitment to the set. I walked around birmingham and this feeling of doing something wierd and other people seeing me persisted, as though the social pressure of people seeing me do an approach was just too much for me to bare. This was a tough day went out for a whole day and did no direct approaches.

Learning points:

• I also need not care so much what other people think
• I need to own my sexual intent a lot more
• I am far too relaxed in field 'ZEN' not sexual rather than being prepared and ready as a cat stocks its prey ready to come to action
• I have to get the first direct approach out of the way very quickly

Relisations:

I am learning a lot about myself by going out on my own and it has humbled me to appreciate that there is a long journey of growth to travel ahead.

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Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life.

Herbert Otto

I am interested in women, however I am invested in learning the skill set.

Saturday 5th May

Solo: 15:20 - 17:30 2hrs

I went out on my own with the right intention and energy and got into my warm up very quickly doing 3 direction openers very quickly and on the way to victoria square doing 2 compliment openers and a further directional opener. I got my first set of the day out of the way very quickly and I did my next 2 sets in a good time frame. I did not fully commit to all three openers I just the social sensitivity of people looking at me it affected me and as a consequence none of the sets stopped for me. After my third set I got very difficult for me and I did no do not any solo approaches after that. The three approaches because of my awareness of other people really affected my confidence and vibe and I went into a very mental state where I was in my head not really having fun anymore.

Duo: (Jackal and Slick): 18:00 - 21:00

When I first met jackal he had momentum openning sets and not building comfort. We walked on new street where because of his high energy in comparison to where my energy was, I went for a walk on my own because I knew his energy would just hinder me (when you are in a low energy state and someone has very high energy it can throw you off). After we rejoined things did not really improve, my confidence felt really rocked and i was so in my head that I was close to just throwing in the towel and coming back home. After listening to my headphones where I was just totally disengaged and the fun and enjoyment of the whole process had just gone. In that moment because I just cared far too much what people thought of me. Jackal helped me by practicing on him walking up the broad street and slowly but surely my state started to improve and I was in a better place to do a few more approaches on my own.

I did a 2 sets all afternoon that I really felt I committed to and both were very good interactions.

First Set:

First set did a sling shot after practising micro interactions with Jackal, repeating the first 5 sec or so of my usual opening routine. And I ran up to this cute HB 8 rocker chick, I did a direct opener ‘……..i think you look really nice’. Ran some assumptions, …what particularly caught my eye was how quirky your look, you propably do something creative fashion or marketing’. (Her) I work in fashion….’ The set hooked very quickly and she started to talk about herself when it came time to transition my brain just froze (my mid game was nowhere to be found) I had no got got past the opener for the last day and half and I pre maturely ejected.

The Second Set: Instant date

Me, Jackal and Slick where walking up to the bullring Jackal spotted this HB 9 Blonde girl. I was reluctant, to approach but I just fuck it, you haven't done like one proper approach all day. So again I did a slick shot opener Jackal and immediately ran into set.

Again did the usual my usual opener ‘you looked nice what caught my eye was….’. Again transitioned by making some assumptions my personal favourite when the girl is fashionable ‘…you do/study something creative? ’. Did some tease to spike up attraction teased her about her Australian ascent and why she traded hot Melbourne weather for shitty Birmingham weather, she works in walkabout I tease her how contrived!!! …’ By his point the set has hooked and I go for the instant date by say, ‘ I really need a coffee pointing the Starbucks and ask her: do you take coffee or tea? (a rhetorical question I could not careless about which of the two she picks) and I say let's go and start moving and she follows and we continue talking. We get into Starbucks I order my coffee and she her’s. I lead her to the table and transition to comfort by just asking opened questions,’ Why she came to the UK? What she does in Melbourne. I make sure I challenge her on some of her answers. She saying she teaches Music therapy (Me)…what does that involve? Is music a passion or are you just doing it for the money? We stay for about 15mins and leave I invite out during the week and we exchange numbers.

What I learnt:

Energy is always a changeable thing you just have to not give up and commit to getting into a better state.

Energy is a funny thing when you are not in a social state and having a tough time even approaching. In that moment I forgot all I a had done before. As the instant date showed once you are in the interaction your skillset is there its just getting going which can be difficult at times.

I need to approach solo gaming more in an evolution way rather than revolution.

Do not look down on the winging aspect of game when done with clarity and understanding it is critical path of this journey and you cannot go through this journey without it. Thanks to Jackal and Slick who really reaffirmed what being good wings is all about.

Realisations:

I do not yet possess the skill of being totally comfortable solo gaming so i should not give myself a hard time. I have only been sarging for 7 weeks. It is a journey and I need to look for ways of integrating a lot more into by day. Doing approaches when I am on my own (my lunch break), before a wing session etc. Manage your expectations when gaming solo have realistic and achievable goals that build on your last session, have a set time frame for when you are going to be out there 30mins - 1hour. Appreciate it is a journey and you are to take it step by step because I feel that I have over calibrated that now I am in a place where I need to integrate solos better and appreciate it is not over night but a step at a time.

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Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life.

Herbert Otto

I am interested in women, however I am invested in learning the skill set.

SOLO

Jackal's I am relinquishing all responsibility from Jackal's crew. On the 20/05/2012. It will be two years of me being in this community.

Spending 10 hours a week teaching and 10 hours sending texts, providing feedback and phone conversations with the crew is taking too much time.

In 20 hours I can do 1200 approaches, which are pretty much micro-interactions.

I now want to invest my whole time in self development. I want to have the confidence to do the things that I have done in a group on my own. Frankly there are some things I have done in a group that I would never have the confidence to do on my own. For this I want to give a big THANK U to the group.

Doing SOLO consecutively for 4 weeks now has given me a new self awareness. I have realised that I only do difficult things if there is an audience. I had a few funny moments teaching, when I was in set. For example I kept looking around wanting my students to see me in action. At this moment I had to ask myself, what on earth was I doing? Can I not function without an audience? I had to ask, could I not live without validation. It became my only reason to exist.

However I no longer have issues, I can approach guy sets, and pretty much anyone in sight.

I have taken teaching as far as I can. There is no more of a challenge in developing my leadership skills. The last two months I have taken it to the extreme with less pushing and pointing to sets. I am determined. I now only care about being an INSPIRATION, and that’s if I even care at all.

I advise you guys to live up to the streamlined rules if you wish to carry on. Otherwise u r not serious, if you do not, I will not care.

I put a high value on myself, and I only valued teaching under my TERMS and no one else’s.

SOLO. I can test out all the skills that I want. This is exciting and very challenging time for me.

The group is still valuable to newbie’s and provides role play opportunities. To me it has now ceased to be reciprocal to me, as I seek other challenges. I value solo approaches without any comfort from wings. Doing SOLO has given me greater awareness of my weaknesses. I have been doing 140 sets a day for 4 weeks now. I have been sarging to and from work, and also lunch times. This could mean sarging 3 or 4 times in one day on weekdays. In 2 month’s time the approaches will be less and the interactions longer. On weekends I aim to do 600 approaches a night. My reason for doing this is because I consider myself a solo newbie. I have always dreamed of being able to do this, as I really do enjoy talking to people. Re-engagements are a way of testing buyer’s remorse, and boosts confidence. Frankly I am disgusted with my lack of personal development.

I never cared about social proof, and believe in CREATING social proof and not using a wing for COMFORT.

I have been the neediest guy I know, and now feel doing this on my own, in a huge way is giving me what I want. I have done solo before but lacked the intensity.

I no longer have a need to impress anyone for validation. I now enjoy impressing myself.

I have always been proud of my teaching. I have never seen a free coach providing the same level of intensity as I have. However I still make no claims about my PUA ability other than I am an approach machine, and value this very much.

What does this all mean? I will no longer be actively recruiting. I will gradually finish off my obligations to the existing students, and then retire permanently to being a SOLO ARTIST.

I am not the most confident guy I know, but when I am fearful I slowly push forward to learn something new.

To my detractors, I have the balls to meet anyone face to face, shake your hand, and look u in the eye, smile and offer to buy u a drink. That’s the kind of balls I have. If you want me to open a few sets, I will not mind, that is a reasonable request. However I will make the same request back.

This is my last post for the foreseeable future.

Goodbye and good luck.

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Lol, a solo artist!

This is a FR on approaches that I've done last Tuesday with Slick.

We were trying our hands on more natural game, more physical game.

Loads of blow out of course but what was different this time was I'm enjoying myself more

As usual I need to do warm up approaches every time and I was going to meet Slick at his campus and I actually forgotten how to get there so I ask direction from a blonde and she was nice enough to actually take me there instead, and I got a number close from her after talking to her while walking over to campus, nothing much came out from it

Me and Slick went out to approach after, some good reaction some blow out but I would say most of it are good reaction but they will leave that I blame on lack of stuff to talk about but we were working on physical game so we moved on.
Not soon after I spotted 2 girls, on chubby and the other is a really hot ginger girl who is engaged
All I did was said hi and showed my hand to let her know I'm expecting a handshake and she shook my hand and then I pulled her closer to me and right away I'm telling her both verbally and non verbal that I like her and want to be more than just friends, kino right away and by far the heaviest one in daygame. Put my hand out palm up and she just leave it there, that was a good compliance test and I just raised the ante, holding her hands like couple, I didn't want to leave her chubby friend behind so at one point 3 of us were holding hands and just fluff talk, loads of comedy moments, sexual jokes.
Slick was there with his guitar, he isolated Chubby and straight away that was my cue to be more intimate with ginger.
We were hip to hip, I hug her around her hips and make it fucking clear it was on lol
Eventually found out she was engaged which was cool, kept going. Got her number

After a few failed sets, Slick spotted a girl and told me to approach her with a method he taught me and I tried, not saying a word and just a put out my hand, to point is to have good body language, a smile on your face and not give out a creepy vibe. It worked and straight to talking to her, she's australian on wokring holiday, after some fun conversation she suggested to get something to eat together, i agreed, we got sushi, number closed and working to seeing her again this weekend, hopefully....


Keep going
Jimbeam

Its about time you quit jackal. 200 sets and 200 fails, now that is a good sign that you are shit.

Its good that you are going solo jackal. When you sarge as a group, there is a lot of pressure in the group to not be the weakest link. This creates tensions and ego clashes. Even AFC's like SLICK, CASANOVA, DOLPHIN and VOLCANO start thinking they are a fucking big deal because they gained your approval. So now that we are all alone, we have only ourselves to compete with. When you were the leader of the group, you were treating us like you were a fucking Lord of the rings or something. Maybe a part of it was to cover up your own insecurities. When you are alone and give up betaising other people, we are just friends and wings. Let us put an end to this dirty JACKAL crew and start afresh. A new beginning where we are all out there to have fun in our own fucking ways.

And fuck you SLICK for acting like a dickhead last weekend.

Fuck you DOLPHIN for being an absolute cunt. You know what you did you stupid motherfucker.

Day 18: I met up with Terence at 6:30. We walked to Victoria Square. Terence asked various people for directions to warm up. Once we got to Victoria Square, we began to walk through some side streets. I did the Yad stop on a few girls, but none of them stayed because I didn’t move the conversation forward after the opening. But then, I got advice from Terence to say ‘what particularly caught my eye is ......’ and also to begin making assumptions about her. I incorporated the advice. I approached an Chinese girl on New St. I made assumptions about where she was from. After two minutes, she crossed her legs, signifying that she didn’t want to leave anymore. That was cool.
Jackal met up with us. He was dressed very nicely. Later on, we went to Slug’s with Jimbean. It was fun. Me and Jimbean did some sets together. I was flowing freely and talking to whoever I wanted to. Then, we went to Mailbox. I met a girl from Poland and got her number at the end of the night. I just want to be friends with her. Jimbean talked with a 2set for a half hour. He did a great job.

Day 19: Jimbean and I walked to Slug’s. Jackal and Wolverine were already there. We quickly moved to Wetherspoon’s. I did a couple sets. The first one was a 2set in the corner of the room. I made a straight line to one of the girls and introduced myself to her. The other said ‘You’re confident’. I said ‘I’m not confident’. She said ‘Yeah, you walked right up to her and introduced yourself. That’s bold’. She also added that they’re in a deep conversation. I said I can take the hint and ejected. Then, I went to the bar and talked to a girl next to me. She immediately asked me fluff questions right off the bat. Is that a sign of attraction? After that convo was over, I approached a 2set and they did the same thing to me. I said Hi to them and they started incessantly asking me question after question. I talked to them for about 5 minutes. Jackal and Jimbean talked to a seated 2set. Jim was social proofing the whole place and doing physical game on different girls in front of the 2set. At the end of the night, he got the hot one’s number. She was immensely attracted to Jim. When I was talking to him, she was intensely staring at him. Nice.

You might not of asked her with 100% belief.

Just come back with some quick whitted response.

"Hey whats this all about, I've only known you 2mins and your already telling me your problems"

or

yeah your right, lets keep this discreet

I've not done Night Game for a very long time and as usual I was pretty nervous about - nervous is an understatement. I've decided to join the crew for a night out last minute on Friday. I was too in my head so the first night I totally became an AFC, not talking and not approaching and in my head, it was all a chore to me and bars and clubs is my weakest. I tried my best to observe and learn from anyone I can really, I didn't open much sets and the one I did open are street sets. My first set of the night was a street one, we were all on the escalator going up and I notice a very attractive Asian girl on the other side of the escalator going down and I thought what was there to lose so I waved my hand at her to catch her attention and said Hi and surprisingly she said Hi back and I left it at that and of course being Jackal he didn't let me stop there -which at the end thank him for pushing me. I re-engage her by running down on the escalator as quick as my feet can carry me and avoid getting caught and fall like an idiot. I manage to land safely and ran towards her, tap her on her shoulders and said hi. She turned around surprised but she was happy - always a good sign. I was working on my physical game so instead of talking to her first which is my default and put my hand out wait for her to shook it and she did, i hold onto it more firmly and pull her towards me making it clear of my intention, straight off we were hugging. She was giggling like a small child. After the hugging and giggling session, then we talk for a bit mostly fluff and standard boyfriend thing came up and I without hesitation turned it into something funny and said "Cool, let's hold hands together and meet your boyfriend!". I took her hand and clasped in my mine and we walk together making jokes along the way. She wanted to keep in touch, so got FB close. It didn't matter afterwards because it was fun, we parted ways. The rest of the night is mostly horrible, not approaching at all and massive blow out. In fact Slick was way more sociable than I am LOL

Saturday night was good, this time I told myself I didn't want to pressure myself about pickup so I went out to have fun, with no intention of approaching women. I just felt good knowing that I am free from approaching..... Just Kidding!
I was happy that night because I told myself that I deserve to have fun and I did, the night started out pretty standard, we met in Slug and I was well happy to see Wolverine again after so long and that totally made my night. I was already pretty social after that, talking to almost everyone and Jackal was definitely very understanding when I told him that I needed some space tonight and he respected that and for that I respect him even more and for the first time for so long me Jackal Wolverine and Slick actually went out as friends and we totally nailed it. We went to broad street after that and got into wetherspoons.

Jackal wasted no time and went into a table of 6 sets, Slick went into a 2 set behind me and Wolverine was already gone talking to some girls and I was there actually scouting around and then I saw her, let's call her K. She just came in the front door, I waved at her said hi, smiled and introduce myself, "Hi! My name's Jim. I want to talk to you" That was it. She shook my hand, I pull her towards me but her friend pull her away. It was okay because I've started my streak. I felt happy, was in state and I went talking to shit loads of people, from the bar to the lounge, to smoking area, can't remember how many people I've spoken too. Something funny happened. I went back in and saw Jackal was talking to K and her friend F. What stand out this time was she knows who I am and she actually saw me working the room for the past 30 minutes. She said, "It's funny I saw you talking to everyone". At this point I was thinking she actually notice me but I didn't put my hopes high so I just talk to her and her friend F and once in awhile I will do takeaways, leaving the table and talk to more people and come back to the table, and now credit goes to Jackal for being the "social glue" which Slick will always say. At one point I heard K told Jackal that I was good at talking to beautiful women. To be honest I was really attracted to her but I didn't do much with her because I couldn't sit next to her and I can't kino her so I totally did not expect anything from that girl so I went on being the happy fun and sociable person.

Now the massive IOI came when I was chatting with Slick on a topic we both were passionate about I noticed K was staring at me; now at first I thought I was wrong but Slick told me again later after that. Now from here on out I can only assume, social proof, jealousy plotlines and some rapport triggered her attraction switches but honestly I don't know. Eventually she left early with her friend and I just had to get her number, texted her that night and now getting logistics down to meet up again.

Overall it was a good night, took a "group" photo

Never Give Up
Jimbeam

JACKAL CREW :

The fact that you guys huddle together like a bunch of puppies is a clear indication that you guys lack inner game. Being independent is one of the primary qualities a woman looks in a man. All you guys are doing right now is fighting for status within a group managed by an AFC who is all out to destroy your potential as a PUA. The day you realize that you are good at pickup, you will be out of this group and recognize clearly how he is damaging you for only one reason - he needs your attention.

Went sarging on Saturday, warmed up by asking for directions and trying to get myself in state. I saw a few guys who I never used to speak to, but recognised from the school I used to attend and opened them. We had a good conversation and they helped me to get into state. Shortly afterwards I met up with the Jackal for the second time at the Paradise Forum.

Again his confidence and vibe put me in the right frame to get girls. Around 5 minutes after talking to him, I was approaching all sorts of women, some as good practice, and some with a lot of beauty.

Wasnt one of my most successful days, but not everyday will be, and these are the days you learn from a lot more. I opened many sets that day including mixed sets involving both a boy and a girl, multiple guys and girls in the weatherspoons pub and a mother.
I opened a girl who was in the phone, maybe 4 or 5 years older then myself and got an IOI when she stopped and told the person on the phone to wait a second and I digressed. The conversation didn't really go anywhere as she said that I was to young.

Opened another set, a HB8 mixed race girl who managed to trip up on a curb, to which gave me a great opening line. Shortly after the conversation began, her mom came over and could see my intention and dragged her away. I went back to the Jackal with a big grin on my face since I was feeling good about how I am now approaching girls I wouldnt have even dreamed of just a few months back.

Jackal shared his expertise in regards to opening mixed sets, and when to go in for the kill when you realise that the two of them are not in a relationship together. He also spoke about past experiences and how to be a good wing.

For future progression, I'm looking to do some solo sarging and solo game and see whether I can hold my own on my own.
I also feel that I get my state more from other guys I'm with while sarging. This needs to change as this may make me dependant on other pua's. Going forward I either need to figure out how to change and set my own state, or try sarging even when I am out of state and see how I do.