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juniboy7 oovoo

So long as your worried about achieving some irrelevant title such as "pua" you cant be helped. Right now you want the title more than you want women. You want the validation that comes along with it.

When you stop caring about becoming some "pua" or Mystery Jr, then you will be bale to learn. The reason why so many guys in the community dont ever get any better is because they don't actually care about the women, they care about the validation.

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Do you want to be a PUA, for the title or even a player, or do you want women in life?

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juniboy7 oovoo

Grammar, sentence structure, and how to unbold your messages.

I'm finding that focusing more and more on inner game is a huge aspect that a lot of people overlook. It doesn't seem like you are very happy with yourself now, so I suggest continue to eat healthy/working out, and finding what makes you happy in life. This doesn't mean having tons of girls around you. If it does, I think there are deeper issues you may be dealing with that should get sorted out before. Once you are comfortable with yourself, and everything in your life, you'll be able to walk around confidently, and approach anyone. You won't need any routines, you'll be happy with yourself and say what comes to mind with confidence.

Give him a break, english might not be his first language, no need to torch his ass over it.

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If I gave him a break then I'd be accepting him as being inadequate and ill-proficient. I'd rather push the guy to being better. So in actuality, you're being a total dick for excusing him. I demand you apologize right now, in perfect prose.

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juniboy7 oovoo

It's awesome you speak english, you're way ahead of these people here in South Florida who couldn't learn enough English to say "MY ASSHOLE HURTS, PLEASE GIVE ME MEDICINE".

Juniboy,

Read 'the game'. great entertainment book, paints with a broad stroke - and gives you an overview. BUT - too many newbs read it and think they can do everything Style did, too... Bullshit.

Read "Rules of the game".

Read Mystery Method, if that's what you're aiming for.

Read "Influence, the Art of Persuasion".

Read books on social dynamics.


And in-between reading, start meeting people. Approach at least 10 people everyday and ENGAGE in conversation. Ten per day - minimum.

When you do that, either PM one of the guys on here whom you respect, or post on the forum.

Good luck.

RR

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juniboy7 oovoo

Gain acceptance to the group, or her personal space. Engage in conversation. Stack, watch and build.

VAK model.




edit: BUT - I think you have a misconception. You can't read a book, watch a TV show, and be a PUA. It takes YEARS of actually watching, engaging with, and experiencing women. Learn the social dynamics. Learn WHY she says something rather than what she merely says. Learn the indicators. Learn to cold-read a woman. This takes practice like nothing you can fathom.

This isn't for everyone, either. If you're not willing to put in the time and effort to TRULY do PU, it might get you laid from time to time, but you'll always have superficial game.

10 a day. You should already have met one by now!

GO!

RR

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