Why would she care about what I have to say?



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PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2012 2:06 pm 
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Well I have been doing pickup for a few months and I get stopped by approach anxiety every once in a while. The biggest thing on my mind when I am talking to a girl is "why would she care about what I am saying?". Once I think about that my mind just gives up and I give up on our interaction. The PU community says that you should be the "prize" but I dont feel that way.


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PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2012 6:29 pm 
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Sounds like some pretty negative self dialog.

If a complete stranger came up to you and asked that same question in set would you still listen? Or would you box him out, and continue with your routine like a pro?

How bad do you want to be good at this? Because ultimately its that inner drive that will render your success in this game, and sometimes you really do just have to fake it till you make it.

Good luck!


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PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2012 2:41 am 
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Alright. Yeah man it is some negative self talk but I just have a hard time with that lol. I guess I do have to fake it till I make it and I will do exactly that then.


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PostPosted: Wed May 16, 2012 3:11 am 
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Why? because you're interesting.


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PostPosted: Mon May 21, 2012 3:49 pm 
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Alright. i get it. I guess I have to do this.


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