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PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2012 10:27 pm 
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She stayed at mine the other night...etc etc
she sent me a text saying at the end of it that she was a dangerous girl
i replied with i find dangerous girls attractive, they like to live life on the edge.
she replied with. Well i can't be that dangerous since i resemble a sloth

What am i meant to do here lol? I was going to say thats she herself is her worse critic but i thought i'd post here first. i need a quick answer lol

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Insecure... Double check if this is the kind of girl that is going to provide anything healthy into your life.

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I replied with "your worst critic is yourself. You have more self confidence than that, i know you do"


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You gave her a lil too much credit on that one buddy ;)

I would of went with " awww I love sloths :) "

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Insecure... Double check if this is the kind of girl that is going to provide anything healthy into your life.
Oh pleeease...

Every person in this planet including you has insecurities. I would find it rather unhealthy, if one didn't.

Your reply was great, Shady :) I hope all keeps going great for you.


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Insecure... Double check if this is the kind of girl that is going to provide anything healthy into your life.
Oh pleeease...

Every person in this planet including you has insecurities. I would find it rather unhealthy, if one didn't.

Your reply was great, Shady :) I hope all keeps going great for you.
There is a big difference between insecurities and putting yourself down in the face of someone that finds you attractive.

And his reply was trying to convince her of something that she already doesn't believe; Thats like swimming up stream, but that not something you would understand just yet ;)

In due time my friend

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Insecure... Double check if this is the kind of girl that is going to provide anything healthy into your life.
Oh pleeease...

Every person in this planet including you has insecurities. I would find it rather unhealthy, if one didn't.

Your reply was great, Shady :) I hope all keeps going great for you.
There is a big difference between insecurities and putting yourself down in the face of someone that finds you attractive.

And his reply was trying to convince her of something that she already doesn't believe; Thats like swimming up stream, but that not something you would understand just yet ;)

In due time my friend
You don't seem to quite understand how female psyche works...

It takes a lot of trust from a woman to joke about herself like that.. Trust and showing one's humane and vulnerable side is a gift that needs not ridiculing.

I have always treated and will keep treating my ladies well with great respect and they have been and still are very... appreciative ;) And not just in the obvious way.

To know how to genuinely appreciate and love a woman and be adored and longed by one seems to be rare on this forum.


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Oh pleeease...

Every person in this planet including you has insecurities. I would find it rather unhealthy, if one didn't.

Your reply was great, Shady :) I hope all keeps going great for you.
There is a big difference between insecurities and putting yourself down in the face of someone that finds you attractive.

And his reply was trying to convince her of something that she already doesn't believe; Thats like swimming up stream, but that not something you would understand just yet ;)

In due time my friend
You don't seem to quite understand how female psyche works...

It takes a lot of trust from a woman to joke about herself like that.. Trust and showing one's humane and vulnerable side is a gift that needs not ridiculing.

I have always treated and will keep treating my ladies well with great respect and they have been and still are very... appreciative ;) And not just in the obvious way.

To know how to genuinely appreciate and love a woman and be adored and longed by one seems to be rare on this forum.
Hahahahaha okay dude :)

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There is a big difference between insecurities and putting yourself down in the face of someone that finds you attractive.

And his reply was trying to convince her of something that she already doesn't believe; Thats like swimming up stream, but that not something you would understand just yet ;)

In due time my friend
You don't seem to quite understand how female psyche works...

It takes a lot of trust from a woman to joke about herself like that.. Trust and showing one's humane and vulnerable side is a gift that needs not ridiculing.

I have always treated and will keep treating my ladies well with great respect and they have been and still are very... appreciative ;) And not just in the obvious way.

To know how to genuinely appreciate and love a woman and be adored and longed by one seems to be rare on this forum.
Hahahahaha okay dude :)
Deal with it 8)


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My reply "I don't know what a sloth looks like, but if you look like one that must be one sexy beast!"

If you want loyalty, make someone feel better about their insecurities. You will be invaluable to her...


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My reply "I don't know what a sloth looks like, but if you look like one that must be one sexy beast!"

If you want loyalty, make someone feel better about their insecurities. You will be invaluable to her...
Precisely.


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"You have more self confidence than that, I know you do" ????

That is SUCH an AFC line.. lolll... sorry bro!

Anyway, I would've replied (to the initial text) : "yeah, dangerous like a teddy bear, maybe!" or ":)" (ignoring her).

I would've probably ignored the second text entirely. If I felt compelled to reply, I would've said: "You kidding? I am way lazier than you, stop it" or "Hahahaha, never had sex with a sloth before".

She's breaking rapport and you're chasing it.. stop it or she'll figure out how desperate you are and dump you soon.

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"You have more self confidence than that, I know you do" ????

That is SUCH an AFC line.. lolll... sorry bro!

Anyway, I would've replied (to the initial text) : "yeah, dangerous like a teddy bear, maybe!" or ":)" (ignoring her).

I would've probably ignored the second text entirely. If I felt compelled to reply, I would've said: "You kidding? I am way lazier than you, stop it" or "Hahahaha, never had sex with a sloth before".

She's breaking rapport and you're chasing it.. stop it or she'll figure out how desperate you are and dump you soon.
Incorrect, if you show no respect towards her, she'll walk away soon enough.


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Incorrect, if you show no respect towards her, she'll walk away soon enough.
Hey there dude. While I respect your opinion, I don't think most reasonable adults would feel that those responses are disrespectful in any way, shape or form. Best of luck.

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Incorrect, if you show no respect towards her, she'll walk away soon enough.
Hey there dude. While I respect your opinion, I don't think most reasonable adults would feel that those responses are disrespectful in any way, shape or form. Best of luck.
You have yor opinion, I have mine, I don't have any problem with you disagreeing with me.

At the same time I don't believe in not showing respect for women when approaching them. Especially the inexperienced members here seem to need some guidance in how to treat women in everyday life.

Genuine alpha is able to protect a woman and have them rely on him. Any form of oppression is unnecessary.


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