Guys-
I just want to throw this out there and say listen to your gut instinct. It seems like such common sense I know but there are so many people on this forum that question every little bity tiny thing they do. Stop over obsessing about every little freakin detail! Please! Look I even said please.
The thing about Game or learning to attract women is this. There are going to be some things that some of you are naturally good at on your own before you even started in the community. There are going to be some thing that you go out and you just instinctively know how to do. Then there are going to be areas of your game that you probably suck at, and need help with.
What I see several people doing is they naturally react to a situation and they actually do a good job. Then they spend the next two weeks arguing about it, and analyzing the shit out of it via the forum. The forum can be a great tool to help you get feedback and explore new ideas for doing things. With that being said if what you are doing is working for you then don't worry about it.
Example: A girl sends a PUA a text and says, "I really enjoyed last night, thanks for a great time. The guy sends back, "I really had a good time too. I look forward to seeing you again.
" Something as simple as this is now obsessed about where the PUA thinks... Should I have been cocky funny responding, was that needy, was that not Alpha enough... OMG!
If that is what you wanted to say to the girl in the above, and it made her happy then who cares. If you didn't loose the girl over it then who cares. One of the things I think a lot of us forget is just how tolerant women are of us. Many of them give us a lot of room to screw up and us still end up with them.
Or even better. A guy is messaging a girl online or text...doesn't matter which one really. The girl sends the guy something and he responds back. He posts his response back on the forum asking if he just screwed things up, and it hasn't even been 24 hours. Guys, have some patience and give it time to work out.
The other thing I will say is this. If you can't go more than one or two steps in the game without coming on the forum asking for help then you need to go back to reading and learning how to do things properly. You should at least have a basic idea at what steps you have down, what steps you are currently working on, and what the next step is.
Even if you are on Step 1. A1 - Approach, and you suck with that... I know my next step is going to be to transition... and after that it is going to be to create A2 (Female to Male) attraction via teasing, dhv stories, games, or whatever. Even if I haven't done A2 yet at least I have an idea of what I'm suppose to do. Please for the love of God have at least a bit of a road map of what to do before going out there.
If you know that you are struggling with an area of your game, then by all means research the forum, and look for what helped others get through that part of what you do. If you have something that works for you, even if its not all that PUA sounding, then go with it. It is part of who you are, and a part of the game you've already mastered one some level. Why re-invent the wheel just to sound more Alpha, cocky funny, mPUAish, or whatever the hell you guys are thinking.
Bottom line is if what you are doing for you is getting the girl, then don't stress too much. If you notice something that you think precluded you from getting the girl, seek out help, and work to improve.
CHAT