| time for trial and error man, you have to practise and figure it out for yourself or you will never learn, if you can't think of what to do or say, someone telling you a few lines won't help, eventually this will turn into a face to face encounter if you do well, and if the person behind the phone/computer is not you, she is going to notice once that person doesn't show up to the date, there are billions of other girls out there, try to make something happen with this one and put your best effort into it
if you succeed, AMAZING, if not, there are other girls, come back and ask for advice once you have some sticking points, and don't get needy for a specific girl, keep practising on as many cute girls as you can find, until you have found what you were looking for
also there is no power being given away here, the only power anyone holds is over themselves, as soon as you believe you are not worthy, you are automatically not worthy, you have to be sure of yourself
(also just for starters, try to give her open ended statements and questions, rather then closed, if your statement/question can be replied to with a yes or no type answer, then it is not going to lead to a very stimulating conversation, think about the level of energy she has to put into responding for you, the less energy, the less she will be sharing herself with you, but you have to build up the compliance)
GOOD LUCK
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