Hello guys,

Here's the thing. I've been dating with a girl for 4 weeks now. We had already have sex, but the thing is.. the majority of the nights we sleep together, we make out, seriously make out, but she gives me LMR, like last night. I prepared her a dinner, a magnificent one, with candles and stuff. She was melted like butter in August. we made out like two animals, but she says we're just friends, although that, she can't leave the boat and keep kissing me and embracing me , and we're barely dressed, in fact we're almost naked. Wtf is going on?

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John H. Locker
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“Are you going to go into an altered state that‟s useful for you and serves your purposes?” Ross Jeffries

some women want a fuck buddy, a sex partner, no strings attached. If you've been seeing each other for a month and you want to be in a relationship then discuss it. I had the same problem but the other way around, girl i closed wanted more but i just ant to run game so i friend zoned her but we had the conversation and i told her i didnt want a relationship. So you need to just speak with her over coffee or something and find out where you stand, communication is always important.

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Yes, it is definitely. she says "it's your life, it's not my business, you do what you want", but she would be jealous if she catch me with another woman. While her mouth says something, her body reveals the opposite. And that is driving me nuts. Fuck damn it! For a long time (well, not so long) I believed that and I still believe that love is a disease, a disease that makes us forget that there are another 3.5 billion women out there. But, how to avoid it?

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John H. Locker
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“Are you going to go into an altered state that‟s useful for you and serves your purposes?” Ross Jeffries

If she is giving you even minor permission to go out with other woman it means she is not interested in you as a boyfriend. Obviously the fuck buddy thing isn't working as you are more make out buddys then fuck buddys. That gets old quick, I had a BJ buddy last year and after the third BJ I was done with it.

I would recommend 2 things: next time you are with her keep rubbing her pussy as much as you can, there is a good chance this will break her down. Barring this try flaking on her more, and see her less, act mysterious as if you could be fucking other girls, hopefully a jealous plot line might increase attraction.

Of course if this was me id just dump her, but I doubt your gonna do that.

Oh and this isn't ASD, this sound more like "I'm not having regular sex with a guy who isn't my boyfriend an isn't going to be my boyfriend"

Detox, that's hard to listen, but is probably for the best. It's fucked up! I didn't want to be pushed to this situation, but it's beyond control. I came a few minutes from a venue where she was. I talked with her just for a couple of minutes maybe less and left with a girl inside the club. After a few minutes, a friend of mine came by and said me she left. Hard gamming! I just gone mad! damn! she's so fuckin jealous or am I wrong? I may be blind, don't know, but is this an IOD or an IOI? Seriously, I can't think right, right now.

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John H. Locker
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“Are you going to go into an altered state that‟s useful for you and serves your purposes?” Ross Jeffries

probably a good move if you made her jealous, as I said I would deescalate your attention to her when you arnt with her, but when you are in front of her, get her sexually worked up so its hard for her to deny you sex.

If she confronts you about other woman play coy, and remind her she was the one who said we should see other people.

So, as they say in PUA lingo, you have to "raise the buying temperature". The good news is your situation can likely be solved. You have to stop rewarding her with attention when she misbehaves and give her something to fight for.