I slept with this girl that I just talked to for a couple of times. On her way home she was quite sweet and I was leading the situation all the time, solved the LMR sucessfully and at her place the roles changed, she went to the toilet and came out with a lusty sight, I noticed she had removed her panties, jumped on me and gave me a leg hug, her short skirt went up and saw she had also removed her underwear...

It was such a sudden change in behaviour that I was quite shocked and that put me off.. in the morning I was more relaxed and we had sex...

next day (Saturday) it was her bday so I texted:

ME: Hi! Happy birthday bella! ;) It was nice meeting you :) Are you celebrating your bday tonight?

HER: Hi! Thanks for the message :) nothing great planned, just heading downtown now, what are you up to?

ME: Hey I'm going to a house party and then dancing @ *club* around 1, wanna come?


(on her way home she said that shed like me to teach her how to dance, so my last message was kind of following up)

No news from her until now....

1) any ideas/feedback?

2) You also get put off when a girl is too aggressive sexually? I did because I wanted to date her, she is a very interesting girl (And hot!)

3) Also I think I got an STD from her, how would you bring that up?

Um you go get your STD treated tell her you caught something from her so she will go get tested and hopefully save other guys from getting it and then you stop texting her.

That would pretty much be a turn off for me right away. If you are willing to get it again after by having sex with her more then by all means text her more nicely about it
and that it doesn't mean you think she is a skank and you would still like to see her again.

Understood, any feedback about the texting?

If you want to see her more,

"hey had a fun time the other night we should do it again sometime, FYI I picked up (std) and I'm pretty sure it was from you, I've gone to the dr and got it sorted you should aswell, but don't worry I'm not put off by it. Shit happens".

Or if you don't

"Got an STD from you go get your shit checked out".

Did you read the 3 sms we exchanged?

Not sure restating 'it was fun to meet you' is a good thing as I already said it once.
Also she replied with 'thanks' :-/ although she told me where was she going and that she didn't have big plans... which i took it as a 'rescue/meet me!'... I got confused though when she didnt reply to my 'Im going dancing you wanna join?'

I dont think I should be mentioning the std in the next sms... I should be getting a day 2/3 with her and bring up the issue when there is more rapport.

Any nice reply to her silence?

Wait a day or so send a blank text.

when she replies with a "you sent me a blank text??".

Reply with either, "I think our phones missed eachother". or "Thats so cute but you don't need to make an excuse like that to text me".

That was a nice one, anyone else? I saw many people reading but not many posting